Will she do it again?

Somehow I managed to post this on another thread but it was supposed to be a new topic. Try again:
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A few years ago my wife fell for a guy at work. She has always understood my love of her having sex with other guys although she, like many women, thinks it probably means I don't lover her. Nothing could be further from the truth!! We have known each other 19 years and married for 11. During that time she has had sex with, I think, 12 guys, most of them one night stands and 3 of them longer term affairs. The last affair she had with the guy from work was pretty serious although he treated her badly, just using her for sex when he wanted it. The issue for my wife is that for the sex to have any real impact she has to have feelings for the guy. Well she had very strong feelings for this one, to the point where she confessed that she was in love with him. I told her she was confusing love with lust but inside I knew she almost certainly was in love with him. Their affair lasted for three years. The normal situation was that he would send her a text which usually said, What ya doin? Which meant I want you over here now. Very often he would only let her give him a bj which she loved to do. He would be naked when she arrived and she had to undress and then work on him. Sometimes they would fuck. She always called it making love and he called it fucking. The last two times they met for sex was after a break of around 6 months. It was just before Christmas and she came home late, telling me she had been for takes with friends after work. I know her well!! After a while she confessed that he had been there and that she had gone back to his place but just for coffee. A bit more gentle pressing and it came as no surprise she had made love with him but this time she allowed him to fuck her anally, something we've never done and that was her first time. I recall her telling me it was the most erotic and horny thing she had ever done sexually and it had made her feelings for him re-surface. They met once more for another session, this time with my knowledge, and then he called it off.

We remained close throughout the affair and later had a baby. We took the decision at that time to move to Spain where we now live. He contacted her via email in early 2012 and they started to have Skype conversations which usually ended up with them both being naked and with mutual masturbation. I found that quite a turn on.

Suddenly without any indication he told her she was a loser and he wanted nothing more to do with her. She was devastated and it took several months for her to calm down, eventually with her beginning to hate him. She often wondered and would ask me what had caused him to suddenly turn against her. Well, it turned out he had married someone and in a fit of loyalty felt he could no longer do stuff (online) with my wife. He sent her some wedding pics and then silence once more.

Two weeks ago, she received an email from him and he spoke as if nothing horrible had happened. They have been communicating regularly and although at first she told me what his emails said and let me read them, now she isn't saying anything about them and deleting them and her replies. Of course, I have been able to see most of them and once more I sense she is getting feelings reignited for him. He has suggested he needs some time away and wondered if Spain for a few months might be a good idea. He has asked her to find out what the monthly rental cost might be. He lost his job about 8 months ago, received a good payout but has been unable to find work since. His marriage, it appears, is practically over and he hasn't spoken to his wife for 3 months -she works abroad (India). If he does come over, I know my wife will see him and I also know they will have sex again and she will start to have very warm feelings towards him.

Now, I don't want him to hurt her again, obviously, but I know with her there is absolutely no point in trying to stop her. So, generally, if I know he is here and she sees him, I will encourage her, tell her not to feel guilty and that she deserves some good sex and nice feelings. I'll keep people posted on here about any developments but just wondered what people think? His last email contained the sentence (at the end) 'when are you gonna have another baby, love S'....

Wow, you're a better cuckold than I!! Each time my wife even showed any inclination towards an emotional involvement with any bull I have steered her away from that guy. We most times try to find her married guys who will cheat on their wife as there's little chance that the guy will want to hurt his marriage and will keep his relationship with my wife strictly as a sexual relationship and nothing else. To each his own!!

Sounds like he just wants to control her and get her to do his bidding sexually. If she enjoys being submissive to him and you the humiliated cuckold then go for it

I can't stop wanking at this story, it reminds me so much of my wife and I, its such a beautiful situation to be in there is no reamister why your wife shouldn't have everything she wants, if you really love her she only has one life she may as well love life. You seem to be a wonderful loving husband and you have been rewarded with a caring, loving wife. Help her in every-way, the cruellest thing anyone can do is keep lovers apart, be the good guy.

If he comes over here and she sees him I know she will fall for him again. They seem to have the perfect chemistry and I will never get in the way of that. There is something incredibly horny when she comes home having had a night of sensual sex. She doesn't often tell me much but the few bits she does tell me are enough.

I have been through many times with my wife, she seems to fall in love with guys who treat her like crap and control her, the more they do it the more she wants them. There was one guy recently who texts her day or night and tell her to come over to his flat at a specific time, when she arrived he would tell her he had changed his mind, didn't want her that night and he was going out to pick up a younger women. She would start crying and begging him to please stay in, she loved him and would do anything for him. He would continually degrade her, using her anyway he wanted, when she returned home she would go into her bedroom crying. later she would get a text from him and come out of her bedroom happy and walking on cloud 9, he knows how to push her buttons.

Quick update, they've started exchanging a lot more emails and texts and she said in an email to him that she constantly thinks about him in a very lovely way and probably will for the rest of her life. He replied that he is having some very sexy dreams about her...

Sometimes the bull can get such an upper hand in the relationship that he can dictate to the couple the terms of their relationship with the couple having no say at all in the matter. The reamister I try to keep them at arm's length is that the bulls can get very possessive and controlling, particularly if they know the wife is falling for them. My wife once had a guy whom she was totally into...she totally adored the guy and how he made her feel...then one night he was coming over to take her out, (which meant they would end up at his apartment) but showed up to pick her up in the company of a male friend. He didn't even have the decency of introducing me to the guy, but simply told my wife, this is a good friend of mine, while totally ignoring me. I was not sure what the arrangement would be, but I soon learned that he would later that night require wife to take both of them on at the same time. The DP'd her, something she had never done before and was not sure she was ready to try! Neither of us was asked, but he just took the freedom of popping it on us that way as though it would be his way with no questions allowed. My wife complied with his demands since she did not want to upset him, but luckily that night started to open up her eyes as to his true feelings for her....to him she was just his permisteral slutty whore and nothing more. She finally saw the light and decided to dump him for less emotional relationships, usually with happily married men.

Lots of texts and emails but now she is deleting them so I cannot read them....

Not sure why I didn't mention it before but of course it is why this thread is here - he is black.

Latest text to him yesterday said, I want you inside me.

She is keeping everything as secret from me as she can as she has always had this guilt thing. She knows I approve but still feels guilty so prefers to keep it all secret which I find quite a turn on.

She has gone out and left her phone at home. Silly girl!! He has just sent her some texts:

really just want to spend some time with you and your body xxx

my friends and my family know about u

and my sister

we have such a good connection id marry u in a heartbeat

u sexy beast we could fuck on the beach?

u have the most beautiful eyes

He just sent her this email:

Hi gorgeous, just sent you some texts but you haven't replied. Everything alright?

I though I should let you know that my marriage is already over so I am single and free again (well I will be after the divorce). I should never have lost contact with you. I always loved you and I think you felt the same about me. I just totally loved that time we had anal sex and you let me fuck your pussy and arse one after the other, a fantasy of mine that you let me fulfil. I want to do it again. If I came over is there anyway you could get to be with me without him finding out? I know it would be difficult for you but I know I have to get you back in my world.

Please let me know what you think.

love always

xxx


I have omitted his name for obvious reamisters!!! Well, looks to me like he wants to get back into action. I doubt I will get to see her reply as she has taken to deleting her emails as soon as she sends them. It doesn't bother me though. I find all this incredibly horny.

It is weird to think that he has never had the slightest idea that I always new what was going on. I don't think he could handle it if he did know so better it remains this way. I remember sometimes she would come home from an evening with him and cry her eyes out because once he had fucked her he usually fell arelax and left her to get dressed and leave. Over the period of their affair he had sex with her dozens of times. Sometimes she would go over and he would just want a BJ which she always gave him. And I always knew when that happened because I could smell the sex on her breath. If I couldn't then I know they had fucked, or as she always called it, made love!! I people are interested I'll continue posting updates and maybe some bits of what happened when they were seeing each other.

Haven't posted for a while because I thought they had stopped communicating. But this morning she left her email on and there was an email from him and she had replied. She came back too quickly for me to read it and then about 20 minutes later it was gone. So I asked her if she was still in touch with him and she said yes she was but she was deleting the emails as she didn't want me upset by the content. She didn't want to say anything else...

We've just had a quick chat and she has confessed that she has told him she is still in love with him. He has replied that he loves her too and wants to spend some time with her.

A reminder of how she looks..

The truth is that she doesn't see this relationship with him as her cucking me. I feel like I being cucked and it is a very horny experience. Her view is that we have an open relationship, that she is allowed to be polyamorous but that I am not as she wouldn't like it. I think it works best for both of us and I am very pleased that she has told me she still loves him. I asked her if she would like to Skype him and she asked if I would mind. I told her there are no rules here and that she can do whatever she wants with him.

Is anyone following this thread???? Just wondered...

Another interesting thing I've just recalled. A few years ago my wife's firm required someone on a short term contract with particular IT s*******s. It happened that I fit the bill and got the job. As it turned out her lover who also worked there had to report to me regarding this job. So I met him several times. It was interesting that I knew he had fucked her many times but he didn't know I knew. I often wondered what he was thinking when he was in the room with me discussing stuff. Part of me wanted to say to him, I know about you and my wife just to see his reaction, but, of course, I never did.

Another pic

From behind!!

To be honest, we have never really had a great sexual relationship. Our marriage is far more about friendship and soul mates etc. So I have always been very happy for her to explore her sexuality with other men. This isn't to say I am not sexual. I am and get incredibly horny when she is fucking another guy. But it is far more intense when I know there are feelings involved.

I am completely relaxed about her having feelings for this guy, although I don't want her to be hurt by him again. From what I have seen from his messages, his failed marriage and a few more years to his age seem to have made him mature a bit so maybe if they meet up he well treat her well.

I am also completely relaxed that she feels nothing for me sexually but would do practically anything for him to fuck her.

I would appreciate comments from anyone watching this thread.

I once had a similar situation as when you and your wife worked together...I worked as a crew member for a large airline and had fucked a certain married flight attendant several times while on lay overs at hotels. It just so happened that about 7 months into our relationship (strictly as fuck buddies) that flight attendant and her husband were going on vacation and were on one of my flights. She introduced me to the husband who obviously had no idea about his wife and I. They even were staying in the same hotel where my lay over was on that trip. She managed to whisper to me "Not a word about you and I to him" while she was going to the lavatory, so I stayed real cool and treated her as a coworker friend. He was a very friendly, very nice guy and was super friendly to me. I could not help but wonder how he would have felt if he had known about me boning his wife for the past 7 months. Who knows? Maybe he would have been a resigned, accepting cuckold, and then again maybe he would have wanted to see me have a terrible accident. One never knows how a husband will react to the knowledge of his wife's infidelity. In that case she chose to keep it a secret from him, so I never could find out.
By the way, your wife is a total knock out!!

Quick update - saw an email thread where it seems she has invited him over to Spain in the summer and he has agreed. Lots of compliments between the two of them, each of them expressing how much they want to be with each other. So I asked her if he was going to visit and she said yes and would I mind. I said no, of course, and she smiled. He is hoping to stay for a week in an apartment nearby. She said, so how do we play this? I said, while he is here, you belong to him, totally. She said, do you really mean that and I said absolutely. No rules. You can do whatever you want with him. I was pretty hard when I said all this and she was looking a little relaxy!!!

How would you feel if she left you for him?

She won't. Fair enough comment but I know her far better than you do!!

Nice! Keep us updated!

Long time no update but today I saw an email from him which said, 'so what are you going to do with me? eh? I am booking to come over in August.'

So he is coming over. I wonder what might happen?

How did it go?!

Hey Thrax!

How about an update?

....(with pics and vid!)

thrax000 you are playing a dangerous game but if you feel you are in control it sounds very sexy. Your woman is extremely attractive. I would probably be a little more possessive of that pussy. Very hot relationship you three have.