rfresco
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Good day,
We have been viewing this site for quite some time and finally decided to contribute. First, a little bit of background. We are a committed couple in an open relationship. My wife had her first experience while on vacation in the Caribbean about five years ago with a local. It was totally unplanned and came as quite the surprise to me. Regardless, we both had a great time, but considered it a fling - part of the vacation.
About six months after that, she broached the idea of continuing. It was simply an interest on her part, not an attempt to humiliate me or infer that I was somehow inadequate. After some discussions and rule establishment, we agreed and, through the internet, found her a suitable Bull.
This guy was white, and it went quite well. She has since allowed 11 guys to have her, and while a few have been 'steady' (more than three encounters) the majority have been one nighters. Increasingly, she is going black as she really enjoys the size (length and diameter) and contrast. I set up the encounters through the internet but we are not interested in solicitations from this forum.
Finally, I am not a sissy or feel otherwise humiliated. This is an activity we both enjoy and I support her interests completely. Would love to discuss, exchange concepts, suggestions, or other aspects of the lifestyle, either here in the forum, through messages to us on this site, or via YAHOO. No pic exchanges - just honest intelligent chat about a mutually shared interest.
Take care and best of luck to everyone in this forum.
Regards,
Rob and Ter rfresco_99
http://www.cuckoldplace.com/6_84803_1.html
(a series of instructional videos we posted)
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spooj
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#3 · Edited by: spooj
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I can relate. I have been told that mine is more of a hotwife fantasy, and not so much a cuckold fantasy, because, like you, I am not into the offense aspect (well.... maybe a tiny bit... but not much).
My perspective is as follows: I am a modedately handsome man in my 40's with a good (but not great) physique, an average size cock (6 in.) and moderately talented in bed.
I believe that, although my traits make me a good sexual partner, there are men who are better equipped (physicall), are better talented, and have better charisma sexually. Couple this with social taboo, and you end up with the image of a man who is sexually proficient at a much higher level. This is my image of the ultimate bull.
To use an analogy, I'm a good cook. My food tastes very good, and makes my wife happy on a regular basis. However, I'm not a chef. A chef could prepare mind-blowing food for her that I could never achieve. And it appeals to me that she would agree that, while she likes my cooking, she greatly desires an occasional banquet prepared by a great chef. Even to the point of telling me, glowingly, how great his cooking is.
In my mind, this a quite natural feeling for all of us.
So, too, are my sexual fantasies.
Although I am confident in my abilities in bed, I fantasize about my wife getting royally fucked by a large black man with a dick like a tree, her being submissive to him all night long, and cumming on his cock harder than she ever has or ever will with me.
I am envious of you as you have the luxury of experiencing the fantasy, while I probably never will. This why I'm one of those users who is always asking for pictures and video, but never able to contribute (I would, if I could!).
Thank you for sharing information about yourselves. I'm anxious to hear details about your wife's encounters with black men, hopefully with pics and video!
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