voyeurism - is it okay to watch

Like many people who like this forum one of my ultimate fantasies would be to watch, in permister, a submissive white female with a black male or, better yet, multiple black males.

A question for the ladies - would having an additional permister there to watch add to the experience?

I'm not sure of the proper etiquette, is it even okay to ask such a question? How about from the husband/BF perspective?

Me permisterally, I'm a white male, complete gentleman that respects all boundaries, and not looking to participate other than just being there and watching. I would also be willing to share in expenses (hotel, ...)

That's fairly common from those we know. I like to watch and my wife is a complete exhibitionist and loves having men and women watch as she gets fucked. The first time I ever met her she was bent over in the men's room taking about 10" of BBC from the back, later in the night she came over and sat at the bar beside me and asked if I liked to watch and made me buy her takes while she still flirted with other men until another picked her up. That's how we started.

Each permister has their own views on this. My wife loved me to be there watching her, except those special times she wanted to be alone with her lover. This is where you talk to your wife and find out what she thinks, after all, she is the one getting black fucked, and in the end, she will be the one to set her boundries.