slippy02
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Hi,
I have wanted to write a post on this subject for some time. I do have a wife who has had many adventures involving other men in varios scenarios and situations. I have not been on the site much recently for various reamisters and also as i felt a lot ot the earlier contributers had moved on and at times there have been less interesting posts, at least for me.
However my reamister for posting here is to give my opinion and comments regarding a desire for my wife to be a hotwife/slut/available female for the black gentlemen within our society that have an appetite for sexual fun and adventures with white wives. Now i do realise that there are already some clubs and groups who indulge in this type of scene and are already operating to various degrees for the benefit of cuck style couples sho enjoy the company of black males. I have no direct experience and am not here to promote nor knock any already operating, just trying to state my own desires for this and hear from of any others who would wish to comment and/or share regarding this, in any way.
My interest has been raised by reading things about couples who have met males in group situations, even for social actiivties but with the intention of the wife being available for encouragiong etc. Please do not think i am trying to say this desirte is original to me, as i state it is just my opinions i wish to share here.
Basically i would like my wife and i to be members/participants of a club/society, or what ever name for it, where we would be there as a couple who appreciate black men. Now as in every situation when meeting men, there are all types, as are the couples, all looking for their particualar interest. The only way to find out compatable partners is for some form of social exchange, be it over a few takes, a coffee and mingling with other more broadminded and adventurous people.
I can appreciate others tastes regarding what form of sexual activities would be desired and have to admit that i have sometimes not appreciated some things until confronted with the scene in reality so am always open to considering anything as you never know what will turn you on in the heat fo the moment etc.
My desires at present revolve around my wife and i being known around the men and other couples who would be the regulars, as a couple who appreciate my wife having black male attention. Known for her to enjoy sex with men she was attrated to and for being open to encouragement and suggestion from all men. I would be the cuckold husband, desiring to witness anything i could be part of as a voyeur, even when she is being chatted up but also open to being left out of scenarios as and when, depending on activities that would take place involving my wife. In other words no hard and fast rules, except that the requirements of anyone being involved in the club/society never use power nor inappropriate behaviour, unless in agreed role play scenarios.
Maybe i am getting to deep into what would be the general unwritten rules, howver as i said it is only my opinion and the beginning of this post, which i hope will attract other opiniuons and ideas for discussion.
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tom0613
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I would like something of the kind, I think, but am accepting of the fact that it's unlikely to happen for me ... at least not in quite the way you describe. To begin with, I'm not married.
On the other hand, I have two girl friends. Neither lives in the same state that I do: one is in South Carolina, the other in Indiana.
Both are open to having [other] sexual relationships, including ones with black men, if they met one they liked. And both are open to letting me watch.
But neither is open to making a project out of finding such a relationship. Not to looking specifically for a black man. Nor to looking for any relationship strictly for purposes of sex.
You see, I, and they, operate within the subculture known as "polyamory". This differs from swinging, primarily, in that the general tendency in poly is to want relationships that are not just sex; to prefer ones with some emotional connection. Though that doesn't have to be "true love"; it could be just a good solid degree of liking, as in "friends with benefits".
I fully support that general approach, for me and for them. And yet I -- more than either of the two ladies -- would favor being a little more intentional about finding such a connection, especially where a black man were concerned.
Thought you might be interested to know about this variant on the "cuckold lifestyle", as it is mostly found on this site.
Tom
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