thebitbucket
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you also might all want to consider that the obsession/focus on it specifically being a *black guy* might be received really negatively by anyone normal. sorry, but its true
It comes off as racist in a very weird way. "want to see you fuck other guys" is a MOUNTAIN to climb" "hey... really want to see you ONLY fuck *black* guys" is "run for the hills" weird
might be a good idea to just go with the "other guys" angle and just inch it towards this guy b/c he's familiar, already known, has "experience" in this area according to him, already is making moves on her, etc.
Leave the "its a black guy!" out of it. if anything, let her say "but its a black guy!" if thats on her mind and then say "oh, does that matter?"
keep the "my husband is a lunatic" system shocks to a minimum IMO
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spooj
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Thebitbucket... Normally, I might agree with you. But in this case I disagree. She's already been fucking a black dildo, they've already broken the ice on that fantasy, and she's being hit up on by a black man.
Given these circumstances, I think they should stick with the idea of trying a bbc.
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ralphgoff
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#123 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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We had a game last night and William was there, but he had one of his girlfriends in tow. He still sat near my wife and they talked several times throughout the game.
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Turnstone
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Nice update RG, things are still progressing gently Does William bring regularly new girl friends, would they show some signs of affection to him in public (which might both make jealous and turn on your wife)? Good luck for trying to organize the party!
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ZetaHydra
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Great series. Sound like her guilt complex is interfering with her pleasure center. The fact that she gets so wet though is a good indication that she is really getting turned on by the thought of it. Just enpower the fact when you can that sex is fun...and that guilt tripping is never a necessary part of it.
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liberalwoman
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Nice update. you are progressing well and are on the right track. ZetaHydra is right in saying that guilt complex is interfering. you have to really act in a subtle manner so that your traditional loving beautiful wife takes the decision to enjoy without feeling being manipulated. Every thing should seem to be natural unfolding of events planned by Destiny.
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spooj
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The best way to prepare for the next encounter is to have that conversation with her that I mentioned. She'll need to change her perspective on her own before the next confrontation. If she doesn't, she will be resistant again.
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seekernow
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Hot thread. I found the preg risk possibility to be one of the most intense emotion when my ex-wife took on a black bf. If William does score with your wife, what BC would the she use? Do you want her to go bareback and have him ejaculate inside her?
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Turnstone
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I'll have a more basic question, do you have any update regarding pillow talks, William, the possible swimming pool party, your wife use of story and dildo...? All your fan club is waiting
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ralphgoff
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#130 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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Here is the latest:
William came to Saturday's game by himself and sat by my wife throughout the game. Nothing new there except that they are back to being very comfortable talking to each other. This next Saturday is our final game of the seamister.
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Turnstone
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Thanks for the update, you need to work on your foot rub if you want to stand up to William Its good you managed to get it your way for the party, it should be something to look for, and it will keep you all quite busy (maybe William will be able to give a hand to tour wife in the preparation phase )
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ralphgoff
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#132 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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My wife sent out a team email on Monday (Aug 20th) inviting only the players to the end of seamister party. I was worried when I saw that the parents were not included. She did ask for a couple of parent volunteers to help with it. William did not let me down and replied to my wife's email that he would be willing to help and asked when he could come by to help set up.
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Turnstone
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Thanks for the update, it is interesting that she purposefully decided to spend one hour with William and nobody else, when she could have asked him to come at the same time than the other helpers , and did not seem to share that with you I don't know if you will be able to record anything , either during this hour or what's going on around the tub... What is hard to know is how much is left of the "guilt vs hotwife" conflict in her mind; the invitation of William on his own was a point for the hotwife, and not telling you might be guilt-related Anyway, have a great party!
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Allen
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This has easily become one of my favorite threads here. I love how the progression of things is going. My wife is brunette, my favorite kind. The first time my wife cuckolded me was when I left her alone with our then neighbor/best friend. He is still a best friend but we moved one town over. If you are interested in reading how I went from a wannabe to a cuckold and unfortunately a wannabe again, check out our thread. https://www.cuckoldplace.com/36_60320_1.htmlI wish you the best of luck in this and I hope to someday read about how your wife cuckolded you the first time. Above all, don't forget to love her (extra), and constant reassurance.
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liberalwoman
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we are eagerly waited for further developments.
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ralphgoff
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#136 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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My wife and I talked for a few minutes last night about the party. I apologized for not being able to set up before hand and she told me that "Will" and his flower had volunteered to come by early to help out and that they should be fine. That led to a little discussion about him.
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hrnydude
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Very hott story so far! I can't wait to see how things play out as well... Add me to the fan club for sure! I get so hot reading about your story and hopeful happy ending.
I also LOVE the vid of her pussy being stretched by that huge black dildo!!! Damn that's good!
Keep us posted sir,
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Turnstone
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hanslowen
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The anticipation of your updates is pretty exciting!
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Turnstone
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I don't know if no news is good news , good luck for the last game today, and everything else
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ralphgoff
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#141 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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The party was fun, they are really a great group of girls.
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Turnstone
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Thanks for the detailed update, hope the talks will be interesting! You'll have to start planning ahead the next steps, now that the seamister is finished (it might depend on the outcome of the talks ;) )
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hanslowen
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Sounds like someone got a shoulder massage.
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spooj
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I actually think it might be counter-productive to drive them into confrontations right now.
She's still in the frame of mind that she will absolutely turn him down. If that keeps happening, he might stop making advances on her and move on.
She needs to... (1) flip the switch in her mind from "this is wrong" to "this is okay" (2) get into the fantasy with you (3) agree with you that she will give this a try (4) agree with you that William is the bull for her
....just emotional acceptance and sharing of the fantasy and agreement on what actions to take/direction to follow.
Until you two have communicated this and are on the same page, she's gonna continue to shut him down.
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ralphgoff
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#145 · Edited by: ralphgoff
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My wife sat in her usual place at Saturday’s game.
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seekernow
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That's not good news. Looks like the wife does not want to take William's black dick inside her, much less his sperm. You're going to lose your opportunity unless somethings turns around quickly. Next time she's playing with the black dildo and about to cum tell her you really would love to see her use William's dick to get off instead of a piece of plastic. Tell her you would love her more than ever and she would become your ultimate and priceless sex goddess wife. Best of luck.
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spooj
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She cried because she still feels like it's wrong for anything to happen between her and William. As I said before... counter-productive.
But the fact that things went further than she wanted" might be an indicator that she has the desire- she just has to let go of the inhibition. Keep talking to her in the ways I've mentioned.
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Turnstone
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Thanks a lot for the update RG, you need to talk further, without pushing her, you have plenty time Best of luck frome everybody here!
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ralphgoff
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I don't see it as a negative.
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spooj
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Nice! Thanks for the update and the pic!
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