bpop
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Are you saying that she snores while she is awake? Or perhaps that she is trying to make you think she is arelax? Or something else?
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SquirtKing
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No, it could be a light relax. I would like to advice to do always some test whispers by saying "I love you" and listen to her respond. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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SquirtKing
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Tonight I did again a LW session. This time again for approx 20 minutes. Yesterday she sayed cryptic she won't exclude sex with a BBC. For me it was different and a very small sign of progress. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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SquirtKing
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Update; previous night a did another LW session for approx 30 minutes. I did 7 sessions since I restarted on 29 march. De estimate time I spend per session is 20 minutes.
I focussed to let her dream about f**king BBC's. Sometimes I put the trigger in the whispers. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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fender412002
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The biggest thing I've noticed is that she tends to be in a better mood overall. She has opened up more during sex too. These are all positive steps. I hope the trend continues. fender
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SquirtKing
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That's the same thing I noticed. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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Puda
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yep would agree with that also
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SquirtKing
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Tonight I did the 8th session since I started on 29 March. It means that once in 2,75 days I do a session. These sessions are approx 20 minutes per session. Hopefully I will see soon progress. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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SquirtKing
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I'm sure now the LW are working great. Yesterday we had sex. I started fingering her. I told her to spread her legs and let me finger her with 3 fingers and she must fantasise about a BBC in her pussy. She started to fuck my fingers like never before. She spreaded extreme wide open. She asked me without hint of my side to take the BBC-dildo in her pussy. This has triggerd me to go further with the LW. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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hephaestus
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WSTA AlumniThanks WSTA, I'm glad some good of life has worked in your favor Well alls looking good, so I don't need to butt in with any suggestions, just letting you all know I am still around. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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SquirtKing
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Yesterday I got another confirmation I've the right approach. We got a small talk about having sex with a BBC. She was talking what type of body she likes. We watched some black guys on the internet while she was saying she likes. Tonight I will plan a new session. I hope to see more progress soon @hep Is it possible to mix in the LW sessions between: " from now on you dream"... and " when I say the word [triggerword], you want to...". I mean, when I repeated a few times: "from now on you dream" can I repeat to whisper "when I say the word" and after a few times to whisper again "from now on you dream" etc. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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hephaestus
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SquirtKing
Probably be ok, I have tended to seperate the two from getting her to dream and the 'trigger' words. Sometimes in the same session for sure though I don't think I've ever alternated directly between dream suggestion and then 'trigger' word/s and directly back again - over and over.
Like anything to do with LW trial it and see... if it shows signs of working and benefits you, use it if not bin it. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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SquirtKing
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Thanks Hep. I will keep that in mind. I've to hurry up because my latest session was thursday to friday. Next evening I will do a new session. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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SquirtKing
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Since I restarted the sessions I did 9 sessions (since 29 March). That is an average of 1 session per 3 days/ nights. The average time of a session is 20 minutes. Tonight was the latest session for about 30 minutes.
I hope I can do some new sessions soon. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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swhwwfubbbd, jbbarrow2000us and others that have posted in the past, any updates? How are things progressing?
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SquirtKing
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Last night again a session done for I think 35 minutes. Approx 30 minutes I stopped to fall in relax, we both woke up because we heard the noice of stormy weather outside our house.
@Hep Do you know if this affect the LW's?
I have to say we had sex when we woke up that night. It was quite short. Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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#228 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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SN1_ETR
Getting really good responses from my wife and currently really building on them and getting her to fever pitch before I decide to bring in the next installment of my 'faked dream' for her to sink her mind into and hopefully mirror back to me the suggestions I've been planting in her mind about fucking big black men for real.
Got to say though I've kinda started taking a back seat here because people seem more interested in this as following a series of other peoples successes as a kind of interesting story instead of reaching out and posting with what they should be trying and doing and using for themselves here and adding to the richness of this thread by using the methods - even if it means taking tentative steps without any IR cuckolding content and just sticking to opening whispered suggestions like " I love you so much" "you are beginning to feel so good and sexy in yourself noticing guys noticing you and knowing they think your hot" expanding in these simple things to opening changes in her mind! Now why does that seem so difficult to some people if you start off small with safe whispers and test those! http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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swhwwfubbbd: even if it means taking tentative steps without any IR cuckolding content and just sticking to opening whispered suggestions like " I love you so much" "you are beginning to feel so good and sexy in yourself noticing guys noticing you and knowing they think your hot" expanding in these simple things to opening changes in her mind! I have dialed it back from what I was doing, in terms of frequency, because I thought I was seeing negative changes in my girlfriend's attitude toward me while awake. Of course, that could just be that what I was doing was succeeding, and she sees herself as monogamous. That would be surprising, considering the dating she was doing a couple of years ago, but it's possible. Also, I started making sure I don't bypass the "I love you" stuff, on the way to the stuff that really excites me. For me, although IR issues are exciting, and she did have a black BF for a while before I met her, IR is not the main issue. Of course I recognize that this is the section it's in though, too. But for me, her having a BF she dates, makes out with, and spreads her legs for is what turns me on. xoxoxo Christine (a sissy m)
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I'm starting to try it. My wife is going thru chemo, so for now i'm just whispering things like "i love you" and "you're beautiful" and "you desrve to be happy"...just a little bit, so that she gets accustomed to hearing it in her relax. Once she's finished with chemo and radiation, i'll kick it up a notch.
I don't want her to fuck a real black guy, just a black dildo and play up the fantasy. She's VERY prude and has never done any dildo before.
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fender412002
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Spooj, best of luck to you.and your wife. fender
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H iswhwwfubbbd Thanks for the update. Yes, this thread did take a turn in that direction, but I think that does help others to see what works and what issues or results people are getting. I have started with the "I will always love you" part. My wife is a very light relaxer so I am weary of an extensive whispers. To answer your question though on why others may believe to have a difficult time with this is that it may not be easy when you are concerned of getting "caught" for going to far. But as you and I know saying the "I love you" routines would not raise any suspicions.
Spooj, best of luck to your wife and you.
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Wow Can't wait to try this on my wife. I think i will start slow, trying to get her to dress sexier and not wear panties at home. Hope this works.
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@spooj All the best I can wish for you and your wife. Hopefully she will recover soon!
Tonight I had an experience that could get out of the whispers. She used a word I never used, only in the LW last night. Probably stupid for you but the word was "pussyjuice". And yes, she was extreme wet! Wishing my gf into the IR scene
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spooj My heart goes out to you both, hoping that all your own hopes and needs are met. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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With a name like squirt king you'd think your wife would have said pussy juice before! I was super nervous the first time I tried lw. But after time you get used to it. And, I think she gets used to it on a subconscious level. Step 1 : get yourself used to it. Start very quiet with loving whispers. Nothing sexual, just love and positive reinpowerment. Step 2: when you're comfortable add one our two words at a time. I started with "big dicks" and eventually added...big cocks...well endowed men...large penises... Step 3: I moved on to "big dick fucking you" or large penis inside of you etc. Step 4: I just added that she wants to fuck a man with a large cock etc. Theres more after that but take some time to acquaint yourself with these early steps. Remember, as with learning any new s*******, extra time spent learning and over learning the early steps will usually pay off somewhere down the road. Best of luck. fender
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Thanks guys.
The chemo has my wife bald an nauseous for a while. Needless to say, she has zero desire for sex and her self-image is in the crapper.
I'm gonna try using this, at first, to help cheer her up and boost her self-image. In a few months, she'll be finished with chemo and radiation. Her hair will start to grow back and she'll be feeling better. That's when I'll kick it up a notch, and eventually maybe get her try a black dildo. That'll probably be about 6 months from now, so I've got plenty of time to get her accustomed to hearing the LW.
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spooj Think thats a great idea to help give her back a positive self image Spooj. Best of luck. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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I think my wife is slowly testing the waters. She was convinced recently to try something new (non sexual) by another man. Sorry I don't want to get into detail but suffice it to say it's similar to say an extreme sport. I had tried in the past (many years ago) but she was always too afraid. I had not even bothered to ask recently. She works with him and it happened while out at a company sponsored event. Better yet she said she spent the whole evening (say from 6 to 11pm) with him. As they were with everyone from their company, its interesting that they spent the night alone together. She told me about it as soon as she got home because she was excited that she had tried this new thing and was telling me how much she and he had together that night. Nothing happened, I think. When I asked her why she tried it, she said she figured you only live once. This is something that I've been whispering quite a bit. I'm not quite sure where to go from here. I don't want to come out and ask if anything else happened. Even if nothing physically did, I think mentally and emotionally there is a distinct possibility. She may be dipping her feet to test the water. Seeing my reactions (all positive) may give her confidence to move forward.
The guy holds a high ranking position at the company too. She tends to like and fall for A type permisteralities and really seems to like bikers and business execs. I'm pretty sure she's drawn to the power and confidence they display. She also has a brain that tells her these guys are not the marrying types which is why I presume she ended up with me. I took her from a total alpha with a big cock and bad attitude. She realized they weren't going to work. Despite her brain telling her what makes a good husband, I believe her body doesn't give a cuckolds brownie and wants what it wants, an alpha dog with a big dick that leads the way in the bedroom. Maybe there is something in LW I can focus on to help continue this path for us. fender
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fender412002 Mmmm HAWT, sounds good Fender!
Certainly seems to have you pointed in the right direction. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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