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Please delete, duplicate post created by error on mobile browser. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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#542 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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Please delete, duplicate post created by error on mobile browser. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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#543 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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Please delete, duplicate post created by error on mobile browser. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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#544 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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Please delete, duplicate post created by error on mobile browser. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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#545 · Edited by: swhwwfubbbd
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Please delete, duplicate post created by error on mobile browser. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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SheDatesHeWaits
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swhwwfubbbd If you haven't noticed, using the "Back" and "Forward" tabs on your browser to proof your post will result in re-posting it over and over. If you use the "Edit" button that won't happen. cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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No that isn't it, unfortunately looks like the particular browser I was using on my mobile to leave messages on the fly created this infernal loop!
Edited but can't delete and tried leaving message through 'foxy forms' contact (which appears to be only way of contacting admin) and it won't accept my message of help to delete!
Just found the admin email on Mr Big Cuckolds profile so will try that.
No, no luck there either as it won't allow me to send it! http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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swhwwfubbbd You should be able to send him a PM by clicking on the "envelope" icon on his profile, at the top next to "admin". Mr. BC profile: https://www.cuckoldplace.com/index.php?action=userinfo&user=1cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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fender412002
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After a long time away from lw, I've finally resumed. (Wife had medical issues that have finally been resolved). The other night, borrowing from another poster I told her to imagine she and I were dancing. A young good looking black man asks to cut in for a dance. She ends up in his room taking his big unit. I told her to imagine him rubbing the tip on her pussy back and forth...making her wet...
Well her breathing escalated more than the normal rem quick breaths and she mumbled something I couldn't discern.
The next day I asked her what she was dreaming about. Lying, (I've been married to the woman for nearly 20 years so I can tell) she said she didn't remember having any dreams. I said oh, because I heard you talking in your s l e e p. She quickly turned around and then as if realizing her reaction was too intense, she calmly asks what did I say? I told her I didn't hear but as I did I gave her a look like I might have. I figured if I let her think I really didn't hear, she would easily push down any guilt she might have for having such a dream. But by keeping her guessing as to whether I heard her, it keeps the topic of her "dream" alive in her mind. I'm so evil 😈 fender
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belbastone
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Cool Fender. I restarted LW because i notice that my wife is not very much into sex in this period. When i did LW for one week or so, i noticed progress... I'll keep u updated.
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atlbbc4mw
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Haven't done this for quite some time - but I have been researching on what this is all based on - one thing that I noted was that one should "keep talking" - pausing allows the person to think and possibly wake (and catch you)...
I also found the following list - most of which are repeated in my research - think this all could help if followed - I will have to restart and try some more again soon. Yes I lifted this list but it summarizes things that I keep finding:
1. Keep direct suggestions simple and concise. The person must understand what you are suggesting. Direct suggestion must be clear and sharply focused.
2. Repeat suggestions. Repeatition helps to strengthen the suggestion. You can repeat suggestions in different forms: repeat the same phrases, paraphrase the key suggestion or use synonims and similar phrases.
3. Make suggestions believable and desirable. If the objective of your suggestions is not capable or believeable, then your subject will reject it. You must suggest the things that your subject can achieve.
4. Create a time frame for suggestions (Use time frame words in your suggestions). For example, if you want to designate immediate action, use words "now", "shortly" etc. For long term goals you can use prhases like "by the time you drive the car . . ."
5. Focus your suggestions on one goal at a time. Don't try to use one suggestion for solving 2 different problems at the same time.
6. Use only positive words. Avoid using the words such as can't or won't etc. Intead, use words such as can, will etc. to send positive signals.
7. Keep suggestions general. Don't use thought-provoking phrases.
8. Use cue words or phrases to emphasize suggestions. Cue words are especially helpful in posthypnotic suggestions if your goal involves habit control.
9. Select images to augment direct and posthypnotic suggestions. Imagination is very powerful process. If you can imagine yourself achieving your goals, then you activate certain brain activites and energy that help you reach your goals. So using images in suggestions contribtues to the achievement of the main goal.
10. Remove unwanted suggestions. You should reject all the suggestions that are not related to your main goal. It is that simple.
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atlbbc4mw: Haven't done this for quite some time - but I have been researching on what this is all based on - one thing that I noted was that one should "keep talking" - pausing allows the person to think and possibly wake (and catch you)... Well, in my opinion pauses are very important for not to be catched because in this way it possible to "hear the breath". Usually the breath is the key to recognize when need to stop lw because when breath is light there are more chanches to be catched and if u talk continously u aren't be able to listen her breath properly.
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emmitfun
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I can't see it. What am I doing wrong?
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swhwwfubbbd
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Put us in the picture Emmit, what did you have an issue with? http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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Danish
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Hi all! I have been away from the game due to medical reasons. Since then there has been some developings but other things has been put away on a pause. However we are now up again to play, wife and I. I am not sure if anyone wants me to continue telling about our journey? If so, please let me know here or in my inbox.
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belbastone
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let's share here our progresses
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swhwwfubbbd
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Pity this thread has died because it helped me get my wife to the goal of her fucking black men. Had no success with expressing my desire to her before I simply tried this method of whispering to her at night whilst she slept, just wish I'd hit on this years ago! http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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belbastone
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I am working with my wife with this method and it works. In the last fucking she fantasize about a jamaican man after we saw good amateur ir porn while a jamaican man fuck a busty wife.
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fender412002
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I've been at it quite a bit lately. After almost 20 years of marriage she's agreed to anal. She's always been one of those girls that says exit only. I agreed to take it slow with her so for now we're just using fingers to get her used to it. A few weeks ago for the first time I had my finger up her ass. I also rimmed her and tongue fucked her asshole. After that she asked me to fuck her with her big dildo. So there she was with a thick and long dildo in her pussy, my tongue on her clit, and my finger up her ass. She came like a crazy woman. Just beautiful fender
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belbastone
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Fantastic Fender, are u lw in this period?
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fender412002
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Yes quite a bit. I've noticed that she has tended to open up a lot since I began this a few years ago. But not always in the ways I've intended. My theory is that the lw gets her mind thinking subconsciously about the topic of the lw but, her brain processes it and mixes it with her secret desires. The end result being what I'm seeing from her. For example I've always thought of her as dominant and me more of a sub. I'm realizing now that she really longs to be dominated and I'm really starting to enjoy dominating her. fender
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i watched a science show about brains and memory. It seems each time you remember something you actually change it. What they did was have some one remember something and then to fantasize it happening differently.
Two weeks later when asked about that memory they remembered it the way they had fantasized about it.
You can try this. Get your wife or girl friend to remember and describe the first time she was making out with a guy in her younger days. Then get her to picture imagine it was a BLACK MAN she was making out with.
Next week get her to imagine the second guy she ever dated and to imagine her dates with him as a BLACK MAN.
The following week get her to describe the first time over and see if it was with a BLACK MAN. Then get her to fantasize actually having sex with him and how big and wonderful the sex was.
The next week get her to remember the second guy she ever dated and if it was as a BLACK MAN get her to imagine and fantasize that she was having sex with him for the beauty and size and pleasure she got from him.
If this actually works your woman will slowly become convinced she was a BLACK COCK slut when she was younger.
And if it works your woman will find it hard to resist any BLACK MAN that says hi to her.
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Like that a lot dickles, very interesting idea! Thanks for sharing those thoughts.
Fender looking good, this is what I've found it helps mould her desire but ultimately its in her control. I have always been amazed how much its shifted her now to fucking black men.
I can imagine taking dickles idea and using that for LW might be pretty interesting for guys. I'm going to use it on her at night and see if she relates past white boyfriends as becoming black in her mind! She's always maintained ex's were all white. http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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Belbastone good to hear she's fantasizing appropriately! http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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fender412002
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Dickles I want to try your idea tonight. My wife doesn't realize it but over the years she has at times said she never dated black guys but on a few occasions she mentioned that she had dated black guys. It pretty much means that she has but either doesn't want to hurt my feelings or just doesn't want the questions. Either way, I'm looking forward to trying dickles's idea. fender
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Did some more research into memory recall. When you take a memory in long term recall it and think about it you store it in short term memory. The next time you ***** it gets transfered into long term memory.
The key seems to be when it is recalled at that time you change it by fantasizing. As it is fantasized you change the subject, Say i am hungry lets get some thing to eat. you have to leave it alone for 2 weeks. Recall it from long term again and change it a little more. Change the subject. Let it alone for 2 weeks.
Eventually they will believe a total different memory
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Been at it pretty hard for a few nights now. I think she is becoming conditioned to my talking because when I start she is now constantly falling into a regular breathing pattern. When I stop for abou a minute or so the breathing tends to be more erratic. Also the last two nights she's been masturbating in her s l ee p. At first I didn't know what it was but I quickly turned on the screen to my phone and saw her hand beneath the blanket going to town. I've only heard one small moan so far. But with the patterned breathing and the jilling off, I think I might be on to something . Also in addition to walking her through scenarios where she's taking bbc, I've been telling her that my dick is too small and that it doesn't please her like a bbc. Normally we have sex about 2 times per week. She hasn't been in the mood since I've started the most recent round. fender
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I forgot to post, but I tried this a few months ago just for fun. I was lying in bed next to my wife, quietly watching TV. She had been asleep about an hour and was snoring ever so slightly. I turned off the TV and waited about five minutes, then leaned in and whispered very quietly to her.
She stopped snoring immediately, her eyes popped open and she said, "What are you doing?". Needless to say... it ain't gonna work. cuckold - Pronunciation - kuk-uhld - noun 1) The husband of an unfaithful wife. 2) A husband whose wife has sex with others. NOTE - It does NOT say: Sexually confused, submissive, humiliated, sissified, crossdresser, cocksucker, or piss drinker
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fender412002
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SheDatesHeWaits I think you went about it the wrong way. REM ***** doesn't start until at least 90 minutes. But I find it best to wait until about 3 hours. Then you need to whisper when she goes into rem. (Eyes fluttering and short quick breaths). Use a quiet low voice. Definitely don't do it with the tv on. fender
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As I've stated I've been pretty hard at it the last several nights. Today my wife texts me: fender
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