hephaestus
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belbastone thanks belbastone i'll take a look https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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hephaestus
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hephaestusthe missing / banned word is s l e e p s. Damn Belbastone and there was me thinking my method was kind of original! Argh well at least I know it works! Lisaissa once you are happy and feel safe to progress from a "I love you", "I love you so much" stage move onto "I love you so much" moving to "and because I love you so much I want you to be able to experience much better much heightened sensuality with big black men." moving onto graphic detail about her coming again and again over and over, big black men powerful physiques black hands all over her etc etc. Whatever it is you want for her. Make it graphic and vivid. Then she will start over a few weeks getting vivid graphic dreams.... then you tell her she wants to use a big black dildo - tell her she wants to introduce fantasy sex play with you with fantasy talk about big black men and you using the big black dildo on her. read the PDF at the bottom link of this post. Its the most useful expansion and continuing progression you will need to deepen and widen her desire - coupled with the hot dreams, her wet desiring pussy and the fantasy play to ratchet up her desire more and more. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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Danish
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Update.
Hi guys, as mentioned before we have talked about buying a bbc dildo for her and negotiated a contract.
The dildo was ordered. I ordered the Lex Steele. When it arrived it was waaaaay bigger that we thought. She is a fit girl with curves and very tight. I had a feeling she wanted to try it though she was scared. So I licked her and lubed her alot. After a lot of work it went inside her tight pussy. And after not so long she came. She said it hurt a bit when her pussy contracted in orgasm. She wants to try it again.... Remember at the beginning she said she even didnt want that thing in her house.... Now its at her side of the bed in the drawer....
The contract. She was very demanding... I will get back with a translation of that...
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hephaestus
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DanishExcellent 'work' Danish, no matter how many times I hear and see the obvious changes that occur it still amazes me every time to remembering how the 'good' wife / partner starts off with protestations and some way along the process is eagerly wanting some more - expanding those boundaries in every sense of the word! No doubt for some husbands / partners the step of fantasy play with black dildo is their final stage and no doubt for some that is a ecologically sound need for themselves. When I say 'work' in single quotation mark in the first sentence, it's purely because whilst it is undoubtedly work getting wives / partners to this heightened sensing of arousal and desire it isn't work knowing how much pleasure we as their partners, as well as knowing how much extra pleasure they get and will get from this evolved revolutionary process. Ultimately we know how much pleasure we both can feel from the resulting hung black man with our renewed re-imagined hot slut of a wife / partner. The burning energy that is created and fulfilled by all at this final stage and end game. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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Danish
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Update: Pandoras Box
Hi guys,
Now things are starting to get really exciting but also very scary. For initial meetings we have met some potential lovers for her, none black though. For a long time she has turned them all down after the meeting. With no exceptions all of the men wanted her though. And I understand them, she is very beautiful and sweet.
We have now signed the contract and it is a tough one... She often tells me she is going utilize this contract fully and she even told me that I most probably from time to time will regret that we signed this contract. In general the contract states she can be unfaithful whenever she wants and she can use a chastity device on me as she wishes. I will try to translate the contract later if there is still interest.
I have always thought that I should be there participating or watching when she would have sex with other men with no exception. She has often teased me that she might visit her future lover alone if I didn't behave, just to tease me. She knows this would bring out some jealousy inside me but she enjoyed the thought and I enjoyed her "evilness". I always just teased her back with something like "yeah, sure you would hon", as I always thought she would never have the courage to do that and that it would never be practically as all potential bulls where never living in our town. Me being bold in that way did provoke her and I liked that in spite of her warnings that it might happen and she is entitled to do this according to our contract.
She is OFTEN teasing me about my size these days and often that I am a quick cummer and that she looks forward to be fucked for a long time. These days she demands often that I lick her creampie after fucking her. And she cant wait until the day it is going to be another mans cum. I would say she has a kind of a creampie fetish these days. She is also expressing other cuckold fantasies.
As mentioned above the contract contains a section about her right to control my orgasms in a chastity device. And she pressed me to order a cb6000. This is now ordered and in the mail. She has expressed she looks forward to the arrival with excitement.
We have been experimenting with her bbc dildo maybe 4 times now. She seems to be adjusting to it now and can take more and more of it inside her. She enjoy this more and more now.
She is still very active on the local sex dating site. And here comes the scary part.... She found and candidate in our city. She made plans for us to meet him and he lives 2 blocks away. I thought to my self no worried she will probably turn him down to. Well she didnt and they are texting together now. The guy was really nice and young and she liked him. We discussed our fantasies and our rules. But one thing made me worry... She asked him if she could visit him alone some of the times. Of course he answered yes. Since that she has really teased me with that. That he lives close and she will get cock while I am at work frustrated in my chastity device etc ect.
I can see this is a turn on but also not my fantasy from the beginning. In my fantasy I should watch it every time. When I am very horny I like the idea of her going alone some times but it also cause some jealousy feelings. But I can see that I asked for this by being so bold when she tried to tease me and make me beg for her not to do this alone. Surely the naughtiness and my jealousy is a huge turn on for her. I guess I opened Pandoras Box here and will get more than I barged for...... I guess I woke a dragon up I can't control. She is VERY loving towards me and we are very close. This has brought us closer...
Will keep you guys updated.
Danish A wannabe cuckold who is inevitable going to be a cuckold (its out of my control now)
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hephaestus
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Danish That's a hell of a update Danish!
I'd suggest **re-in forc ing** the need that she wants you to be there to see and love each other more and more through the sex with other men.
I'd even suggest something like seeing your face flashing in front of her lovers / sexers face during sex and her need to seek out your face as she is made to cum in her sexers arms.
I specifically use the word sexer in replacement for the word lover in my wife's sessions. I think using the word lover has too many obvious attachment tones / connotations that could come back to haunt you.
I also say your Ni er sexer specifically.
Remember you got to find ways to tie her orgasms and pleasure to you and YOUR face as much as her knowing she's obviously being fucked by someone else. This is the long term relationships safety perspective I'm talking about here. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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hephaestus
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Just to reiterate, remember that your partner having orgasms with other men creates issues for your relationship in that a number of chemicals are released in her brain during orgasm that help to clear her mind of past lovers - this means you of course. To counter this problem make sure she doesn't see the same guy more than twice in a row before cycling sex partners. During **s l e e p** whisper sessions get her to understand these other men are not lovers but are her sexers for her sexual pleasure and fun. Don't use the word lovers in regard to them BUT use the word 'sexers' I know its a kind of made up word in English so I can't think what the Danish equivalence might be!
Also in regard to this problem instill the idea that as she fucks other men and they make her cum that she sees your face as she cums - flashing before her eyes - superimposed over their face.
I know that part of the cuckold thing is her going out and you being left behind in pain and anguish BUT if you can be in her face when she cums with other men - this will be the biggest security to keeping her in your life as your lover. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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belbastone
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Yesterday we had sex and i tell her about my fantasy to see her fuc*ed by a bbc. She initially told me horny "and u watch?"...then she refused to continue and wanted to "do love". Obviously i didn't satisfy her properly because i want associate the good sex with bbc fantasy and watching images and video with bbc. Last weeks i whispered to her while she sle ping that fantasy and me watching her fcked by bbc but in the roleplay i didn't say that i wanna watch but she did! LW works in that... I think that little steps are vital in this cases, she refuse at moment that fantasy because i think that it's too hot for her and trasgressive for a religius conservative mom of 2.
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Danish
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Dear Hep and other following this
I have done what you have said. Been working on her to see my face when she orgasms with others. Looking good as she mentioned the other day she will see my face during orgasms with other men. She also mentioned that she might not be able to orgasm with other men. I asked her if this was still good fun for her and she told me hell yeah! Then I want you to make me orgasm afterwards.
Another thing is she refused to talk about fuckbuddies as lovers. She told me "YOU are my lover, they are not".
Another thing is she warned me several times this week that when she gets started with this she might like it so much she will do it ALOT.
We still havent done anything yet but its a matter of time i think.
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quyKkJ8R
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Yes jasonono
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hephaestus
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belbastone: Yesterday we had sex and i tell her about my fantasy to see her fuc*ed by a bbc. She initially told me horny "and u watch?"...then she refused to continue and wanted to "do love". Obviously i didn't satisfy her properly because i want associate the good sex with bbc fantasy and watching images and video with bbc. Last weeks i whispered to her while she sle ping that fantasy and me watching her fcked by bbc but in the roleplay i didn't say that i wanna watch but she did! LW works in that... I think that little steps are vital in this cases, she refuse at moment that fantasy because i think that it's too hot for her and trasgressive for a religius conservative mom of 2. I think this is is very true - taking small steps to the right place - especially when there are psychological blocks to her natural needs. Nice work belbastone. Danish: Been working on her to see my face when she orgasms with others. Looking good as she mentioned the other day she will see my face during orgasms with other men. She also mentioned that she might not be able to orgasm with other men. I asked her if this was still good fun for her and she told me hell yeah! Then I want you to make me orgasm afterwards. Another thing is she refused to talk about fuckbuddies as lovers. She told me "YOU are my lover, they are not". Another thing is she warned me several times this week that when she gets started with this she might like it so much she will do it ALOT. We still havent done anything yet but its a matter of time i think. Nice work Danish, you've definitely got a great rapport going with her **u n c o n s c i o u s**. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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hephaestus
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Well a delayed Happy New Year to you all - I hope some of you will get your ultimate wish coming true with a little nudging from yourselves! I'm pretty sure that this will be my wifes year for sex with Black men. After countless family delays and set backs including physical injury for her I recognise the place we're now at! We had decided on meeting up with a black man some years back - after countless hours of **un c o n s c i o u s manip ulation during s l e e p** only to have her fall at the last day due to some idiot damaging her back. It soon dawned on me that this was a major set back and put me off track - I stopped the process - I stopped going on line - I stopped helping others. I was really pissed off. Gradually her back has improved to the point that we can now move ahead. We did have family issues and set backs along the way. Her ****** and her health being one - our 'grown up' kids being another.
Following the re-energised approach over 2014 and accompanying fantasy play etc to reinforce the **s u g g e s t i o n** we're now back in the best place to achieve the 'end'. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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hephaestus
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** m o t h e r ** the word deemed too controversial! https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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atlbbc4mw
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hephaestus Good to hear that things are improving for you and yours.
Keep us posted!
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jbbarrow2000us
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Glad things are going better. Thanks for the support of the string and keep us posted.
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Danish
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Next week! Hi all Sorry for being silent for so long, but nothing has really happened before this week. Well although she has a potential lover living very close we just haven't mad any arrangement with him due to busyness over Christmas and he went very silent and didnt write much on phone to her. She felt he lost interest which I am sure he did not. She always wanted at least 2 fuckbuddies and preferable one has to be a BBC so she continued searching on the local meeting site. She found one whom she would like to meet to see if there where chemistry. I didn't have high expectations and thought this guy would be another one she would turn down after meeting him. We met the guy at a local bar and he seemed very nice and polite. Before we went to the bar she ordered me in the chastity device as she thought that would be hot thinking of me in chastity while we where meeting her potential fuckbuddy. I sensed a chemistry was there between them and he seemed eager to convince her that he is her future fuckbuddy. It worked! After he left she told me she wanted to have sex with him soon. So she texted him and they arranged him to come Monday next week. So at that time I will maybe be an official cuckold!! When we came home from the date she was horny and wanted me to lick and kiss her all over from tip to toe. Id complied and licked her to orgasm afterwards. After that I thought it was my turn but no! She said enjoyed me being chasted too much. I begged her some but with no luck, I where really horny and could not ***** after licking her fine body and delicate pussy to orgasm. We talked a bit before she fell into *****. She told me she may or may not release me from chastity before after she had her first time with her FB. This scared me and made me even more horny. She also told me she may want to see him alone while I am at work. Today she gave me the key to the chastity device before going out. So I can hopefully at least jack off Monday while watching them have fun in the bedroom. So this is the update and status for now in case anyone has questions or comments feel free to contact me or write here. Hep: Looking good for your guys. I am very pleased and crossing my fingers for you 2. Long time since I have heard from you, hope you are doing good. Thats all for now, wish me luck
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sn1_etr
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Wow Danish congratulations fantastic news. I hope it all turns out great for you and your wife.
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bpop
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Danish: she texted him and they arranged him to come Monday next week. So at that time I will maybe be an official cuckold! Thanks for a very nice update. I know many of us are looking forward to hearing how things go. I know that sometimes guys flake out, but I'm hopeful that won't happen in your situation. xoxoxo Christine
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hephaestus
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atlbbc4mw: hephaestus Good to hear that things are improving for you and yours. jbbarrow2000us: Glad things are going better. Thanks for the support of the string and keep us posted Danish: Hep: Looking good for your guys. I am very pleased and crossing my fingers for you 2. Long time since I have heard from you, hope you are doing good. Thanks for the kind words of hope and encouragement chaps. My best of luck and best wishes to you too Danish. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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Danish
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hephaestus: My best of luck and best wishes to you too Danish. Thanks Hep, you too. bpop: Thanks for a very nice update. I know many of us are looking forward to hearing how things go. I know that sometimes guys flake out, but I'm hopeful that won't happen in your situation. xoxoxo Christine Christine, you are most welcome. Well he showed up at the chemesty meeting and seemed eager through the whole process, so I will be surpriced if that changes. sn1_etr: Wow Danish congratulations fantastic news. I hope it all turns out great for you and your wife. Thanks alot!! I hope so too. One thing I forgot to mention is that just before she fell a s l e e p after being satisfied and me being horny as hell in my chastity device she told me this "hon, this is just the beginning...". Today while at work I texted her "I am glad he agreed on using rubber". Her responce "Have a feeling he forgets that and yours are too small for him"... Will keep you updated.
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bpop
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Danish: Have a feeling he forgets that That is SO not the right answer. While I realize you're not in a position to dictate anything, she really doesn't know him well enough to trust him with her life. xoxoxo Christine
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Danish
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bpop: hat is SO not the right answer. While I realize you're not in a position to dictate anything, she really doesn't know him well enough to trust him with her life. True! What we talked about at our meeting was that we should start with rubber and when trust is established we can reconsider. He agreed to those terms. She is probably teasing me as she has a big cleanup the pie fetish.
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spooj
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Sounds promising! How big is he?
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Danish
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Danish: Sounds promising! How big is he? I think he is around 20 cm which I believe is close to 8in. This guy is white very well trained. We are still looking for her first BBC though.
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Danish
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Hi all,
Sorry I do not have much of an update as due to a flue she had to postpone our meeting until next week, hopefully.
Will Keep you updated.
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hephaestus
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Theres some crazy flu going round at the moment - had something for almost 3 weeks. https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf
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bpop
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Sorry to hear that it didn't work out this time, Danish. I hope she feels better soon. I know how much the flu kicks your butt, so be patient with her. Not that you wouldn't be, I know. It's just always surprising how long it takes to come back from that.
xoxoxo
Christine
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well I came back to this thread and cuckoldplace after a long hiatus to find tumble weeds!
This thread and the document link brought about the changes I needed in my wife to make her amiable and agreeable to ******** with black men
So it's sad to see this thread just die! http://www.cuckoldplace.com/10_77714_1.html
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