Subconscious Stimulation

As I have said before (or maybe I told someone else this in an email) this hasn't happened overnight --In fact I know looking back I have screwed up several times -- I would be much further along (my opinion of course there is no way to know with 100% certainty -- but I ma pretty sure) if I hadn't made some really dumb mistakes.

Hello Hep!!

WOW thanks alot for THAT welcome. I am deligthed and thankfull to be back. Had a bit of a rough time but now going strong again. I hope you are doing well too Hep.

Since my last login at this site I have been able to do 1 session. I haven't seen any response yet. We talked about about if we should put up an add. She says she is not ready for that. She expressed that a swingerclub could be a better way to start.

About a month ago we watched some IR amatour porn together for the first time. She was ok with it but she said that she didn't really turn on on the guys in the movie.

Some of my challenges with her will be that she is very pretty and therefore she is very picky.

I have tested the triggerword that I have been working with a few nights but there is no visible reaction to that yet.

To test her reaction better I have added "You enjoy to go out with no panties" to the above mentioned words. This would not be far from her normal limits and should be achievable in a shorter time.

After I started with the LW she has told me 2 times that she had a naughty dream. She does not express that any of them involves BBC but I would say they are pretty vivid but only involves me and her.

Based on her reaction to our conversation about putting up an add I think I will slow down with her and just continue with the LW at night whenever possible. Any thoughts?

Again Hep, thank you for your welcome and I am so happy to see you are still going strong, looking forward to hear from you and the rest of you guys.

Have a good one

Hi Guys, It's really good to see you all here improvising and improving your approaches.

Jamesgang - thats clearly some formidable work you've put in to get out what your getting with your good lady!

We all make dumb mistakes and because the difference that makes the difference is knowing and accepting we can all be learning from mistakes and making ourselves better, because these kind of threads allow that open exploring of others mistakes too and incorporating solutions into our own improving approaches.

Now, I know we can all make sometimes small changes and potentially those changes can make the change we need.

Hi Danish,

Its really good to see you and I'm hoping you your knowledge and abilities will encapsulate everything you want to see and feel and grow towards your desired outcomes.

Now as to the AD, probably a good idea to hold off on that for just a little while.

Put the other pieces of desire firmly in her mind and take those 'small stepped' movements towards the rest.

I've been having some thoughts and ideas regarding LW direction that makes me feel a free open exchange of views is being limited by the ****asterix**** language death on the thread and what concerns me is the site owners worries are for implementing these measures - words like reason (re a***), person (per ***), ******** (hyp nosis), ***** (sl eep) etc are being targeted, I've caught a large number of anomalies through the length of this thread and they really don't help. It really is worth considering why such concern is being shown about language use and what that means for us all. I've seen a lot of blocks appearing in one form or another on various forum sites. I suppose people are second guessing themselves because we are now all acutely aware that the NSA and GCHQ amongst others are watching
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Wow, major success. I have a small update this time. Previous Sunday we were starting to have sex. During the foreplay she asked me: please take the BBC dildo if you want? Usually she wouldn't ask it by herself. Unfortunately I am extremely tired because a heavy busy week. (work 50 hours & even in evening hours some work to do). Hopefully I have some time next evening
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Sounds good SquirtKing, I wonder if consciously pushing / pulling via a little teasing might help in any future suggestions from her about "please take the BBC dildo if you want?" - is she's actively encouraging you to use it on her and is posing her own suggestion in a submissive format to encourage you to use it?

If so a little teasing by going to get it and then saying "Nahh, I'm not sure you want this BBC enough" tease tease "Do you?" tease tease, build that tease level up just enough for her to verbalise her need. If it means stroking her pussy with it at the same time and as part of the tease then so much the better!

Teasing can really ratchet up the desire level in this kind of situation.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Has anyone heard from swhwwfubbbd who started the thread here before encouraging me to come and post.

swhwwfubbbd if you still come here and read this thread, please contact me.... be nice to know how your getting on!

Last thing I heard was that he'd succeeded in his cuckolding quest!
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Last night I did a new attempt. Because of very hot weather we didn't ***** well for weeks. (no airco).

Also last night it was quite risky to start. I ***** some coke to have some cafeïne so I couldn't ***** :D

But now, my neighbours had a party so they were quite noisy. Nonetheless started. But she woke up. This morning she couldn't remember this. This night, a new attempt.
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

SquirtKing
You guys crack me up. LOL Good luck at not getting caught. I guess you can always fall back on "Oh, I must have been talking in my ******". Still some pretty heavy splaining to do. She's going to ask you..."Why would you be having those kind of dreams? You better have a back-up response.

Thanks. Approx 1 hour after she felt in ***** I started very slowly. It seems she wasn't in a deep *****. So again risky. During the LW it seems she was getting in a deeper *****.

Unfortunately a few minutes after I stopped, I turned around in my bed. She woke up from me turning around.
My question is: will she still remember my LW's?
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Previous night a new attempt. This time a little bit more luck. The neighbours were less noisy
I thought she was in a quite light ***** but I started. Maybe I was too silent with my whispers because it feels she didn't catch my words.

I will see what happens this evening. Otherwise, coming night new chances.
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

An overview of last night.

Times are approximate:

10.50pm start to *****
11.05pm start LW
11.40pm stop LW

Just after I stopped she moaned one time and it seemed she was dreaming of the things I LW'ed. She was moving her legs a few times and her breathing was a little bit heavier than normal.

12.45am both woke up because the sound of the horns of some firetrucks in our neighbourhood. We both couldn't fall in ***** till 1.30am.

My question: would she still remember the LW words?
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Remembering after falling back asl eep?
Or on waking to sound of fire truck?
If anything she'll consciously remember what she was dreaming about if she woke in the middle of it, which is good because a lot of dreams get forgotten by morning. Though intense vivid dreams do tend to get remembered. But consciously she won't remember the words.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Fantastic results!!!

Hey guys!! Hope you all are well. Again thanks for your contributions that I am following with great interest.

Before I go into my results I want to share what I have done. I must admit that compared to the results I am already getting I have not done that well. I have been able to make LW twice a week with an average of 1 hour per time.

Previously I have announced that I would expand my suggestions to also include her wanting to go panty less. Well I have not been able to do that yet. But I have been able to work on the BBC hotwifing thing.

I have not yet seen any reactions when I use the trigger word but...

The results:

One night when I was working on her I told her she loves BBC, She wants BCC etc etc. At a time she turned away from me in her ***** while saying out loud "Yes". Maybe that was a coincident. But it seems good. More to come.

We went on a vacation to our capital Copenhagen where there is a lot more black men than where we live. She told me after a day there that every time she saw a black man she thought about my fantasy about her getting blacked. wow....

Now some background:
Way back in her time she has be harassed and stalked by a black man. She told me that recently and she explained that it might affect her thoughts about a black sexual partner. So I understand I need to have more patience with her in this regard.

On our vacation to Copenhagen we did fantasize a lot about her being with another man including a black man. Due to her bad experiences she said she would prefer a mulat with a Big cock.

Black Dildo
We went to some sexshops to look for a black dildo and other stuff for her. But when we were looking at one she hesitated. Afterwards she explained that she could not have a black dildo in her house. Too freaky...

Some might consider this as a setback. I don't. My thought of this is that she really feels this is naughty stuff and really taboo. So when I buy her a BBC dildo and get her used to it she will feel REAL naughty when I use it on her. So for now I believe her thoughts on having a BBC dildo in her house is an advantage because when she opens up she will enjoy her sluttynes that she feels. Her concerns in this regard is good.

I will try to update you more later.

Thanks all. Hope to see some responses and again special thanks to HEP

Beware this stuff is working.

Thanks Hep! Because of my busy job it isn't easy to do LW because I need my ***** more than you can imagine ;)
But, I will keep the goal in mind, that helps me very much!

Hopefully this week again at least 2 or 3 new sessions!

@Danish
Good luck and keep us posted!
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Amazing results!!!

Hey all.

Just want to give another update.

Last night we had a lot of sex. She asked me to tongue her, which I did. I could sense she was more horny than usual this night.

Every time i stopped tungueing her just to tease her she begged me to continue. To tease her i said she had enough for tonight. She begged ALOT and asked me what she could do to make me continue. I didn't answer her and licked her a little again.

Then I stopped again she she where really begging me. She told me that if I'd continue I could by her a big black dildo and fuck her with her. I thought "YES! she really wants that big dildo although she has been against it".

I licked her for awhile to reward her nasty thoughts. After a while i stopped again and she told me that she wants us to look for some black men she could fuck. Oh my god!!! I gave her a good tongue reward again and made her cum.

After a while she got horny again and started to suck me. She told me she would stop if i didn't agree to lick her clean after she has had some strange cock in her. I was horny and agreed. She sucked me off.

Wow this is happening with only 2 weekly sessions at about 1 hour each. Very powerfull.

Will keep you updated.

Great progress, and success Danish!

Really happy for you.

Hep.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Great progress Danish! Lets hope it works out as planned

Wow Danish, that is a major progress! If all goes well tonight we will have our first chat by Skype with a black guy. I will also do a LW next night! I will keep you posted!
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

SquirtKing

Fingers crossed.

Hep
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Many thanks. Last night somethings happend. I was LW and during the LW she turned arround and spreaded her legs slightly. This morning she told me she had a quite turbulent night. She can't remember why.

I don't know if her turbulent night is related to the LW's.
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Last night the third session this week and the fifth since previous week!
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

for the dildo, i think that she wants it but wants you to get it for her. she want you to take the responsibility to bring it home. this way she does not feel too slutty or guilty....
New at this

Just wanted to update everyone that has been so helpful

I was working the LW hard in the past few months --- sometimes it seemed like my wife was right on the verge of taking the plunge and other times it seemed like things had gone back to almost the beginning

Last weekend we went to our place in Daytona (it is not like that it is a small condo that was built in the 1970s we got on the cheap) Anyway since school is back in session in a lot of the Southeast -- the rental sea*** is slowed down (compared to May, June, July) We went to check on the place and get a couple days of relaxation -- I was hoping for some naked time with the Mrs but then I found out she invited our adult ********!!! WTF? Oh well. Wednesday and Thursday were routine relaxation -- Our younger *** (25) had been getting her to watch reruns of Whose line is it anyway? at night (I just thought wow this really is a huge disappointment everything =else plus some show I despise for being totally stupid) We saw some acquaintances and did a lot of walking beach. Wednesday afternoon we met several people who talked to me about the upcoming football sea*** (it is not a huge leap of faith that we are big football fans -- the truck we keep in Fla. is painted with an NFL teams logo all over it and their color scheme and decked out for tailgating (I got the idea years ago from Pimp My Ride). One guy we met, Steve, was staying several buildings down the beach and he was really cool (and black) I was thinking man if we were alone it might be the perfect opportunity. Even though the boys were staying with us I worked the LW around midnight every night. Even though I knew there was no shot. Had to remind myself marathon not a sprint.
Thursday afternoon the kids went to Orlando to do what it was they wanted and we ran back into Steve and everyone traded stories about how the rain had kinda dampened things blah blah blah -- Steve had said that it just wasn't as fun as it had been during Bike Week. We were grilling that night and my wife said if you aren't doing anything drop by. He said he would do it. Again kids coming back so just hanging out grilling and talking football. Not the worst but a far cry from what I had hoped for when the idea was proposed for us to go to Fla. to check on the place and get it ready for the snowbirds.
Thursday night the kids called to say they were going to stay in Orlando until Saturday morning.
Friday James came over we grilled and talked football, beach, a little politics (it was a great night -- good chemistry a little sexual tension) and then my wife says it is time for Whose line is it anyway (I just thought oh jeez really) It was the usual goofy improv I just thought what a downer.

The second to last skit of the night had two white guys and Wayne Brady. I don't even know what the premise was (I wasn't paying attention) but I think it was supposed to be homosexual and Sesame Street (again I hate that show) one white guy bent the other white over and had him put his hands on the ground and says this episode is brought to you by the letter h. Wayne Brady gets in front of the bent over guy and says Capital H. My wife bends over in front of me and says I could use some letter h -- then eyes Steve on the couch and says Capital H. Next thing you know things went from the most bland vanilla Lowenbrau commercial from the 80s (just a bunch of people hanging out) to way over the top. Here I was dry humping her ass while she was working on Steve's dick. My wife reaches back and pulls the hem of her sundress over ass -- I pulled her panties to the side and started playing with her – she got pretty wet pretty fast. I couldn't resist I had to push in my wife. It was so hot – Here she was a dick at both ends and one of them black. It was everything I had been working for since I started the LW regime.
Steve told my wife he was getting close – she pulled her mouth off his dick and started jerking – he had a decent cum shot that splattered on the floor – she kept gently pumping him while I was screwing her and one minute later he shot again – a smaller load. We were still screwing when he quietly left.
A couple of things – I had used the trigger word during the evening (I don't know if it had an effect – I am going to guess yes)

Did LW help I have no doubt.

Thanks to everyone -- I still haven't crossed the goal line yet in getting her fucked by a black cock but I am 95% there

Great news. Tonight I will do my next LW session. Previous week I did six times a session, one time arround 5 am when I woke up early. Also 1 time I stopped after 5 repeatings because she immediately turned around.

My question to all who succeeded:

1: For how long were you all doing LW's?
2: At what time of the night did you did the LW's?
3: How long did a LW session take? Did you do it for 5 minutes, 15 minutes, 1/2 hour?

Because it is quite difficult for me to stay awake I d-rink some glasses of cola with a lot of cafeïne in it so I even can't get in s-leep
Wishing my gf into the IR scene