Subconscious Stimulation

Mmm, nice! Glad to hear it.

xoxoxo

Christine

Just a hint. Learn to listen to the breathing. After doing this a while I'm getting better at noticing the patterns. You need to wait at least 90 minutes after she goes to relax. Then, have patience and listen. You are listening for short quick breaths. Then in a low monotone voice, state her name. I usually do a few I love yous before getting into the content. Remember to use her name. I had a scare sometime back. She was pulled awake by what I was whispering. At the time, I wasn't using her name. She heard what I was saying and got angry because she thought I was having a dream about another woman. To me this proves that they can hear you if you time it right. She was disturbed enough by what she heard to wake up. It set me back a few months. It hasn't happened since I started putting her name in every few sentences. Its like her subconscious knows her husband is talking to her and is OK with that. It was when it perceived that I was talking about another woman that it alerted her conscious state.
fender

Tried to upload to upload sites and they all say registration is necessary - which was the thing that upset ppl about the previous link.

Left a copy on this link The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!

The hyperlink is visible to registered members only!http://www.blacktowhite.net/community/attachments/nwo_ 3tc_loving_whispers-pdf.345286/

which again is a IR site that also will require you to register before you can download.

I'll try again here now but it either comes up as unsupported format or file size too big.



FENDER - good point to remind ppl that saying your wives names during the LW is important and necessary for the reamister you suggest as well as others.



YEP as I suspected still can't upload this size and type of file to here sorry folks
https://www.dropbox.com/s/pyayecsve06192n/nwo_3tc_loving_whispers.pdf

Restarting LW past 2 nights.... we'll see the effects....

I wonder if anyone ever thought of creating subliminal messages into a music cd that would contain the suggestions we want to implant in their pretty little heads? Make it some music she likes and let the subliminal message do its work. Devious, but I like it!

Unfortunately I was unable to LW the last year. I have a good reamister for that what I unfortunately can't share with you. In short, we had both a lot of very bad nights and not much relax because of that. And that's the point, I have to whisper at night.
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

Restarted this technique 3 or 4 times in the last month and i've achieved good results. She looks at ir porn openly and comments some photos. She liked the one when the black man fuck the girl holding both tits and sge have her legs up in his kmees. She told that she like the girl facial expression hurt/pleasure. Yesterday she laughing a lot when i told if her old mum see my ir phone pics... These are too important signals that make me think that this method work.

Good to hear your positive results. Please share the specifics of your technique.
fender

Other ir porn seen with the excuse to show her the lingerie i like... she goes horny and want to be fucked like a picture that she previously seen. When i was fucking her she said "Who are u? A nigger?" I obviously said yes and she cum harder...

I have been doing this technique for the past three years (or so) and have seen some major changes in my wife --
I have Hep and others to thank for the progress

It has been slow (at times) and others and sometimes a big jump forward

To answer everyone's burning question -- no my wife has not all of a sudden started doing interracial gangbangs

But she has gone from being a prim and proper goody-two shoes who would never think about IR sex to having mind blowing orgasms on a black dildo and saying in the afterglow that big black dick screwed me good.

We still have a long way to go (I hope) but I am sure with this technique we can get there

James: Wishing you well and hope you hear some good news soon

I don't know if anyone is even bothering reading this topic anymore -- but last weekend made some more progress.

I had really been working things hard the past few weeks -- going with a looped love black cock/worship black cock recording I made and talking to her about loving black cock. I also added that she needed to shake her ass more and put on a show. She was pretty rested I was exhausted (a untalked about part of this is the need for catnaps for the hubby)

We were out of town on business last week. We were unwinding Friday at a hotel bar and were talking back and forth with several people from Chicago about the hockey playoffs (the wife and I are huge Blackhawks fans). There was a late 20s black guy in the group. The wife has a strict rule one wine before dinner so after she finished her wine we were settling up and getting ready to go to dinner. We said our goodbyes and left.

All through dinner we talked work and all of a sudden my wife says "black James was a really nice guy" -- then quickly got embarrassed because she was afraid she has said it too loud. I said yeah he was nice, pretty cool guy. Which was true he was a cool guy (Although my mind was racing)
My wife leaned close said almost like telling me secret "I didn't think black guys cared about hockey"

After dinner we went back to our room and had some hot sex -- my wife asked for the black dildo as I was working her over with her Hitachi Magic Wand (that is not uncommon although she usually waits for me to introduce it -- but she asked me to get the black dick) What made this all the hotter is while I was using the Hitachi on her I whispered the trigger word I had incorporated into things for the past few weeks IMAGINE -- when I said it I saw her shift a bit

She had two really powerful orgasms

We were laying together and I thought wow I wonder if all that "work" got her going.

Just when I thought things couldn't get any hotter. They did.

She got up and said stroke while I put on a show for you. She started shaking her butt (not really twerking but she is 56) making it bounce. Then she came back to the bed and picked up the dildo and said look at my hands stroking this black dick ( I don't know how I didn't just explode right there) Then she knelt down and put the dildo at her pussy lips and said do you want to see me ride this black dick and inched it into her pussy. She looked right at me and said "you like to watch me screw the black dick don't you" -- she upped it further with "I like being your black dildo slut" I exploded.

Now a couple of things she has played with the black dildo in the shower once before. But she told me it was to get it clean (there was an amount of teasing to that) She did soap up the dildo and really cleaned it (that was way hot) she did let me take pictures. But that hasn't happened again (wish it would). But this was big progress IMO

Good to hear it's seems to be working for you. Not there yet but the signs are showing. Love her big black dildo as well. Especially when I start using it ad a strap on adds to her orgasms like she believes it to be the real thing.

I'm still following it!

xoxoxo

Christine

Great update James . Would you mind sharing some of the lines you use to suggest the trigger? That's one area I've had trouble with.
fender

I will say I think this is an evolving process. I have found that the best results are achieved when she is really zonked out from being tired -- This is what I went on Thursday night

"Tomorrow after work, you will become increasingly aware of how much you want black dick. You want to stroke black dick. You want to get screwed by black dick.
You will become increasingly aware of how much you want black dick in your hands. You will become increasingly aware of how much you want black dick in your pussy. Your will be so horny. And you won't know why, because you will keep it a secret from yourself that I told you this.
Whenever I say your name to you, you will imagine touching black dick. Every time I say your name
to you, you will become even hornier than before. And you won't know why, because you will keep it a secret from yourself that I told you this."

Prior to this phrasing I worked 15 minutes or so on how much pleasure the black dildo gives her and for several weeks I had worked on shaking her ass is sexy.

Needless to say she heard her name a lot that night

Again this is just response to fenders question -- I certainly don't have a magic bullet (I wish) but this seems to be as close as I could hope to one. Wish I had found out about the process earlier

Thanks James. Those are great ideas to get me started.
fender

Glad I could help -- I am happy to for all the benefits have gotten from this -- so far

I've bought my wife two black dildos over the years. The first one I bought pre loving whispers. I think we used it 3 times before she threw it away. Right when I gave it to her she asked why did I have to get her a black one. She flat out stated she would have preferred a white one.

Fast forward about a year post intro to LW. I bought her another dildo. I was going to get white but the store only had black (chocolate) in the model I wanted. I got it. As I was giving it to her I began to explain that it was the only color they had. I could see in her eyes it was exactly what she wanted. She clearly was trying to hold back her overall excitement . Since then, she has expressed many times her desire for me to fill her Mexican pussy with that big black cock.
fender

Few things hotter than a wife you hope to get into interracial -- saying the words (My opinion)

I have already started on a new tact using a lot of the techniques ---

I am trying to implant memories that my wife had interracial sex before me met

Cool... i stopped because she listened me when i was testing if she was ******** with non sense word... i must restart when she have heavy *****. Let's explain your techniques James...

I was caught several times when I started on this journey. Many times my wife said why are you talking to me. Boy was I glad I was just in the testing phase the many times that happened.
Things took a major step forward when she started have problems ******** -- the doctor prescribed Ambien -- that was very interesting .... My wife didn't like how she felt on that -- she didn't know about the benefits I was getting...... so I decided that we needed to find a solution to the trouble ******** that provided some of the benefits of the Ambien w/o the parts my wife didn't like.... Luckily we found some solutions that made the loving whispers work less detectable.

It is slow at times and I stick to one or so themes or thoughts during a session --

It definitely is a slow process but does have its payoffs.

For me it started with a your husband loves you. Repeat for a while. Eventually add in he wants you to take big cock, and so on and so forth. Did this for a week straight. Man I was exhausted after my three am bedtimes.

After a while I started to incorporate life like dildos and she really began to enjoy that.

Later on in the journey I would offer other statements to suggest black cocks to the point that I would include them as a part of our dildo play.

Hard part is trying to do something about for real. For example would mention how I think that guy is checking out her ass or something to that effect and she shoots it down and asks why I notice these things, almost like she knows.

Seems to me that in the bedroom it's all fantasy outside it's that conservative teacher and ******.

Then she surprises me and mentions this dream she had about her ND a couple of black guys and and Asian? guy at a bar. I ask what happened and she said not much. Clearly though I think there is more to this story.

However the long and short of it is I am not giving up on this and hope there continues to be progress no matter how slow.

Good luck to the rest of you Cuck wannabes out there.

Maybe I should enlighten on why this became such a huge kink for me.

When I was dating my wife I knew she was a bit of a goody two shoes but we were in love (a good way to start things off) but when we were dating I was helping her clean out her attic one day and came across a box of miscellaneous pictures -- she was a reporter and was doing a story on bodybuilding shows there were a couple of shots (pretty innocent to most people) of her interviewing a black bodybuilder and her touching his arm etc... just drove me crazy -- She looked a little scared by my interest -- but after seeing that and then getting married I knew I had to make this happen. (Oh yeah and just so you know -- it is countless times I have stroked to those pics)

Loving whispers has brought me pretty close -- it is pretty awesome

Hopefully James it will work out well for you. Keeping my fingers crossed and look forward to hearing the good news

Your story's are triggering me to start again this night. The issue is that I am extreme busy at work. Working 50 hours in the office, almost without breaks.I will start with sport so I will get some more energy after work. Hope that helps and give me some energy to LW
Wishing my gf into the IR scene

I restarted last night after about 1 month of inactivity because she caught me when i was saying the test phrase.
She said that cannot understand what i was saying but only listen me whisper. I think that her subconscius was very receptive (the breath went very heavier) and the conscious listen only unknow whisper. I said "You love black cock... want to suck bbc,,, u want bbc in your pussy" for about 15 min
Today i was watching ir porn on my smartphone and she come near me talking about other things, i put the phone with a pic on my chest (i was layed down in the bed) and she speak to me and her eyes "flipped" about 10 times to the image.
Then i showed some pics with wifes wearing sexy lingerie sucking and fucking bbc and i told her that i like that she wear that (it was an excuse to show black cock) and she goes horny but telling that we cant do nothing (kids at home). I'll continue with lw