Real Cuckolds-Any regrets? (my wife at stake)

Like others have said. You need to figure out your boundries first before you do it.
I am a white bull married to a white/spanish ex stripper. We have had alot of fun in the lifestyle and have only a few rules which we stick by. I have no regrets and i am very secure in my manhood and marriage.
I really think this will happen for you, and you and your wife will enjoy it, we sure have!
You need to take her on vacation and when you get her good and tipsy at the hotel bar she'll take it the next step after you invite the bull to your room for more takes. Be sure and have a camera w/ you!
Before i was married, i had many cpls invite me to their rooms for a "take". Man that was fun!!!
I hope my reply will get this thread back on track!!
marc-br549

A lot of posters (experienced cucks) frequently warn new and wannabe cucks about pitfalls, and preach caution.

Whilst I can relate to this cautious attitude, given the intense and explosive nature of what we are dealing with, I would suggest throwing caution to the wind to some extent and getting your freak thing on!

Remember, the biggest risk is to not take any risks.

More people regret what they didn't do more than what they did.

If being a cuckold is an innate part of your make-up, you really ought to get into it.

You'll find pitfalls and problems along the way - but they will be your own, and no doubt different to those suggested by the seamistered cucks. Basically, you should ignore us!

A lot of good sage advice...maybe just one more thing...the experience and my reaction to it has changed over time. Yours may too. I used to be jealous...very horny of course, but jealous too. Now that's gone away, thankfully for both of us

What an interesting thread. My wife and I began experimenting in d\s about 10 years ago. She wasn't really into it, except for chastity play. She enjoyed how attentive I would become when locked for weeks at a time. It was separate from cuckolding. We were in our mid 30s, had been married since college and until this time, our sex life was very vanilla. Just these little chastity games opened us up. I convinced her to try swinging. We attended a few parties, she got lots of attention and I got none. She didn't like the impermisteral mature of it, but enjoyed the sex and attention. She didn't like the idea that I might have sex with another woman. She wanted to stop. I suggested we try a 3 some - with another male. We did, although it was really more twosome. I had a hard time performing with a 3rd permister there, especially another male. She enjoyed having other males. They were hung better than me, and they all seemed to have way more gusto and stamina. (Maybe it's being with someone new for them, as much as any imagined extra "virility", who knows?). In any event, she had 3 different guys she saw regularly. After we got to know them, she would often see them without me. She began to keep me locked for longer stretches as well, which increased the mind game, kept me horny all the time and fed right into my submissive fantasies. It was all a lot of fun.

Then she met a guy who changed it all. He was super well hung, very dominant (not whips and chains - perhaps possessive is a better word) - and who fell in love with her. Over time, she fell in love with him too. They had lots and lots of sex, and we did things that I never thought I would do in a thousand years - and it was all incredible.Incredible, but unsustainable. After several years of having sex with him exclusively, they grew tired of including me. He became more like her husband. I was a tag along, if that.

We almost ended in divorce, and did separate for 6 months. In the end she came back to me, but it was a painful experience, and I had myself to blame for it. I initiated everything. We both went with the flow and just had fun, but neither of us really thought about what would happen when human emotion - not just sex - began dominating the picture.

She still chastises me, and she still sees other men, but not regularly and only a select few well known quantities.

The edge of all this is incredibly exciting, but falling off the cliff is devastating. Be aware and be prepared and have boundaries, or this can turn into a very negative experience even for couples who love each other.

It can also be a great one, if you survive the lesmister, and I am living proof.

WHile I enjoy the games, I truly do wish we had never started down this road. If I could go back and undo all of it, I would.

Submitting to Big Black Dick is something white couples should do together.

When you've both sucked the same Delicious Black Dick together, you'll be closer than ever.

When you've both been fucked up the ass by the same Thick Black Dick, you'll understand eachother so much better.

I find the "big black dick' cuckolds brownie tiresome and more than a little stereotypical and sometimes even racist. As if every black guy walking down the street is a Bull with an enormous cock and has an interest in fucking your wife - or you - as opposed to doing what most people do, which is living their own lives and following their own interests, regardless of cock size and fetish inclinations.

Not that my wife hasn't been with a black male; it's just that her criteria wasn't and isn't limited to race. Nor do our fantasies and realities neatly fit into pornographic jerkoff material. Sometimes that happens, but rarely according to script. Thank God.

That being said, the real experience dwarfs the crap out here on the internet, regardless of race.

it was totally worth it BOTH times i did it

houseslvsissy
Agree totally. And it is clear when people start saying cuckolds brownie like "...a husband and wife should worship black cock together..." it is almost invariably bullcuckolds brownie. As soon as the word SHOULD appears I start thinking the permister is just a fantasist. Because the reality is always so much more complex and interesting, and that word kind of vanishes from the vocab!

But having said that it is good when your partner gets fucked by a massively hung black guy - from peronal experience!!

House I agree. I think the thing is we cucks naturally see the big ones because we seek them out. We had a few black guys answer permisterals who claimed 9" and showed up with 7" tops.