Cucks: Do You Consider Yourself a MASOCHIST?

Many people (including myself) tend to assume masochists are those black leather wearing gimps in S&M scenes who like to be physically harmed sexually. However, psycholologists have long postulated that a minority of masochists prefer the offense of being a cuckold.
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What do you guys think: are we basically a subset of masochists? Are we a distinct group of "sexual deviants" who happen to have a few commonalities with masochists?

What do you other cucks think about this?
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Definitely ! But this is a long, looooong conversation ! And much less arousing, though maybe more important (?) than our passion itself (???)
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Absolutely. I know I am a masochist. I think it is a fundamental part of being a cuck.

yes without a doubt! i have been a masochist for as long as i can remember and it certainly fits in with my cuckold life as well!

I am not sure about me. Yes I do enjoy watching other men use my wife as a fucktoy, including having my wife lick their assholes, but I would not want family and friends to know. I am sure we are sexual deviants, as our lifestyle is not the norm.

I have described my flavor of cuckolding as "emotional masochism". I do not want any physical pain, but anything that my wife does with another man that used to cause me jealousy, pain, fear, and offense now turn me on more than anything else can.

I love sharing the truth that, even though we still love each other and I believe that we'll stay married, I have lost my wife forever as far as romance and sex.

I get hard when my wife talks on the phone to her boyfriend and I hear the same excitement she used to have for me, but no longer does. When I see them kissing like we don't any more, I get excited. I love her and she deserves a real man, and I don't qualify.

I have been craving offense lately, something she is too kind to do. So I come here to receive it. Part of me wants to be exposed to my family and friends as the cock sucking, cum guzzling, ass spreading, little-boy dicked, cuckold wimp that I am.

Randy

My hub was married 4 times from `68 to `82 (with a couple years off in the middle `70's), he cheated on all of them, and they cheated on him, eventually he decided everybody can be tempted given the right circumstances, and rather than deal with the disappointment, it was easier to join em than fight em. So he managed to distinguish the difference between love making and recreational sex, and we've been together for 23 years, and I cucked him 2 1/2 months before we got married. He's learned to love eating my lovers creampies, sloppy seconds (he insists they go first), and even fluffs my lovers for me.

Your hubs is a very lucky permister then

That is incrediable. I am happy for you (Multi_Orgasmic_Mary). And hats off to hubby for doing the difficult thing in a bad relationship...moving on...you have to credit him for making through the first 4 to get you.

It would seem that most cuckold relationships run a raged edge, because the guy loving his wife fucking other men and having a more natural reaction. Then there is her side. She has sex with other men, they are bigger and better in bed than hubby. But if the relationship is to work she has to stay emotionally with hubby. Some women I think lose there connection to hubby and wind up just switching to there bull.

I do think people in cuckold relationships would do good to recognize this edge play aspect of it and try and stay on the edge and not fall off.

Hi Randy.

Yes, me too! I'm not interested in whips & chains, but I love the feeling of pretty much any kind of emotional pain & suffering. I think maybe the high point of my sex life was when my wife decided she didn't want to have sex with me any more.

I don't subscribe to any organized religion! However if you are interested in a gang bang and you are female or a non weird couple ( single non homosexual males who meet the criteria may also apply) or even thinking about having one, I just maybe able to help

Thanks for focusing back in on the question I asked. Thank you all for answering. It's interesting that so far everyone who has answered the question affirms that they are a masochist. This suggests that theories that cucks are repressed homosexuals, sadists who get off on the power of passing around wifey, or just liberal hippies accepting of open marriages may be misguided. The correct analysis of a cuck is that he is a masochist.
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Don't know if you considered my answer on topic (even though it was), but I disagree with your conclusion. To me it seems more like someone on a Nascar race track constantly slowing down so they can see where the right turn is, once you face the fact that all the turns are left, you can settle down and go much faster. Likewise, once you face the facts of human frailty life is much easier, if you keep trying to make people conform to an un-natural state, chances are pretty good you'll be cheated on,,,so masochism doesn't necessarily have to be at the core of every cuck, just a reality check.

If you are not a cuck yourself you can only speculate on the cucks underlying psychological motivations. That is why this thread clearly addressed cucks. Further, the speculation you provided in your first post failed to directly answer the question posed for discussion. All those who answered before you said (all but one guy who said he was unsure): yes, as a cuck I consider myself a masochsit. Your vote has now been counted: as the wife of a cuck, you do not believe your husband considers himself to be a masochist.
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I stand corrected, however,,,I have been the wife of a cuck for 23 years (longer than most marriages, and certainly longer than most cuck relationships), and you don't do this and stay together that long without total honesty and full disclosure,,,my hub likes more sugar in his coffee, and I like half & half, but when it comes to sex we're on the same exact page,,,again,,,we'd have to be, wouldn't we?

Not into physical offense, but LOVE being verbally used & used by my wife's lover! To lick his boots in front of my missus, as she greets him at the front door with a deep french kiss--- to have them BOTH use me, with her praising his hot blond looks, & yes, even racial offense, BOTH telling me powerfully that "my type" is TOTALLY unacceptable-, & that I ONLY look good whilst masturbating-- -that a REAL stud has to be blond n blue eyed with a MASSIVE cock!
This is psychological offense at its best--- wanting to be bred by a superior being, so as to "optimise the genes"! Rejecting the husband's inferior semen!
I guess MOST, if not all cuckolds are masochists--- it all depends on what you define as "masochistic"

i know i was a masochist both physical and emotional before i was cucked

yes loved having my balls beaten while watching my wife with her big cocked lover. It make her pleasure extra sweet to know I am being tormented.

Thanks for all the contributions...here's some good porn to ******* white male egos!

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