Need advice

I have been married to my wife for over two years now, and we are in our early 30s. When we first started dating, she mentioned that she had dated a couple of black guys before, but she didn't go into detail. I really didn't care or think much of it at the time. Believe or not, we found two older VHS porno movies when we moved in to our home. The previous owners apparently forgot about the movies and left them in storage space along with some other miscellaneous items. One was an interracial porn and the other was a typical 80s porno with white actors. We laughed about it, and stored them away. A few days later when we were getting ready to have sex, she suggested that we check out the movies. I asked her which one she wanted to watch and she said the interracial movie with a deviant smile. Watching the black men fucking white women as we had sex really turned me on, even though the movie wasn't that great.

Later, I joined an X-rated DVD club and began to purposely rent movies that had black men in them. We watched them as we had sex, but she really didn't make any specific comments about the black men in the movie. Maybe she was keeping her thoughts to herself.

I have heard her say certain black men on TV were handsome, and she even said "WOW" when she saw the body on a black boxer during a match.

I don't want to be cuckold. It's not in my permisterality. However, I do fantasize about her getting fucked by a black guy while I watch. I'm not sure if she woud be for this. I don't even know how to broach the subject. We also have a young now, which complicates the matter.

Does anybody have any thoughts or suggestions? Does it appear that she would go for bbc given the background information?

It sounds like she would but you should approach it slowly.

My girlfriend and I do this together. She meets with a black guy she knows about once a month and I watch while kneeling in the corner. I don't eat the cream pie or suck his dick or anything like that. We fuck after he leaves.

What I would do if I were you at this point is advice from jamesriske.

Go rent or buy the movie Animal Instincts. Make sure it is the first one, the one with David Carradine in it. It is about a couple who has a boring sex life until they discover that he likes to watch while she has sex with other men. It's a mainstream movie and semi porn and will totally bring up the subject between the two of you. Confess to her that it is a fantasy of yours to watch.

And then take it slowly. Just have her agree to give a black guy a hand job while in a sexy outfit while you watch. That's it, just a hand job. If you get overly jealous or it she doesn't like it, no harm, no foul. It was just a hand job. But if it goes well and turns you both on, invite him over for another hand job and this time, have her kiss and lick his dick a little bit too. If that goes well, you can progress to a blowjob. Keep increasing it until she's having full on sex with a black guy while you watch. Take things slowly and keep them light and fun. Make sure she has fun all along the way. If you have a young, get a hotel room for your sex fun.

Even if it takes you a year to work her up to the point of having full on sex with a black guy, it will be worth it for you. Try meeting them on Craig's List.

That's what worked for us.

You say stlsjm that you don't want to be a cuckold BUT you want to see your wife banged by another man - I don't know if this is news to you BUT the situation you define is representative of the word cuckold and this isn't to belittle or anger you - until you can become comfortable with the notion of the concept it's going to be pretty hard to take it to realization isn't it?
It doesn't mean you have to wrap yourself up in some of the more extreme forms of cuckolding that one can see, does it? But unless you can make a basic acceptance of the term cuckold in relation to your fantasy it will remain just that. One has to be comfortable in their own skin before one can expect anyone else to participate.

For my wife this took years and years of trying before she was comfortable with someone. But every girls different, your wife may surprise you and jump at the chance to live out some of HER fantasy's. I eased my wife into it by having her dress slutty when we would go out to bars & clubs and flirt while she was there. This progressed to flashing or dancing with other guys at clubs.

If your looking for a black guy, a club is a great place to go. They are not shy and are usually pretty agressive in trying to dance or hook up with girls at clubs even if they are with someone else.

As far as telling your wife your fantasy, if it looks like she enjoys flirting with others, then I would bring it up, but don't be powerful or she will shut down and you my friend will be out of luck.

Good luck, let us know how you make out with everything.

If you dislike the term or idea of cuckold, as I do, refer to yourself as simply a voyeur and fuck what anyone else says; don't let them define you as you are what you determine you are. You can be whatever you desire and enjoy yourself accordingly. It doesn't make you a cuck to watch your wife fuck a black guy. You decide what you are for yourself. I'm merely a voyeur and nothing more or less.

you dont have a wife vanilla so you could never be a cuckold anyway
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You're an idiot. Like the term applies only to married men the way it has morphed. It can apply to a boyfriend........and who's to say I won't marry in the future? I know I'm picky but I'm sure there is a woman out there who can live up to my wishes.

I think I'll report your being mean to me to MBC as baiting!! Waaaaaaaaa!

Fuck the definitions......alternative lifestyles are always going to be controversial......especially when it's something new or just coming out of the closet (lol...bad choice of words?).....the Internet is opening a lot of eyes and minds now and the bigger and more popular a lifestyle gets, the more it's going to branch out into new directions that not everyone already into the lifestyle is going to like.....you can't stop that from happening, everyone's got a different idea of what's fun to them.......trying to label others and define the lifestyle to seperate yourself from those new directions that one may not like, is pointless.....it's not going to change what people are into.....who knows, maybe the lifestyle will end up falling back into seclusion like the CB radio did after it became so popular.....what's better that or having a lot of people into it but, not all with exactly the same interests.