What should i do???

I have the fantasy to see my girlfriend fuck a black man and because of that fantasy i started slowly to introduce her into the theme. After reading hundreds of posts i?ve followed some instructions and tips and, i think, it really worked. I bought a black dildo and she liked it.... i took her to see some interracial porn and it really turns her on. While i fuck her she allways asks me by her black cock and it really turns her on!!!

I was happy to see the evolution and more confident of getting her doing it!! But now, even though she says it turns her on, she also says that she wont do it because if she, it will spoil our romance, because she never had been with other man before. We are together for about 9 years!!!

How can i overcome this problem??? Any suggestion please would be helpful!!!

Patience is a virtue. Just constantly reassure her that not only will it not harm the relationship and romance but that it will enhance it. Convince her of it. Then you're there.

It was the same for me. I did the gradual porn thing with my G/F and we reached the same point, with her wanting it bad but we were both worried that it would wreak everything.

By chance I met a black that I did some work for about ten years previous. He mentally fitted the bill. I got friendly with him again and he became a mate who I introduced to the G/F. Once she knew him a bit, she dropped her guard a little. Eventually, we met up in a local pub and she got quite takes, and we went back home and we both fucked the arse of her. He was in his early sixties and we in our forties, but I swear he had at least ten inches, it looked massive.

After that, we had a few more sober sessions and it blew her mind a bit. She has had some real hot sex and I just wanked off as I was so turned on, but it has since fizzled out with him and we have got back to normal...sort of!

If something like that happens again, we will just weigh up the situation.
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