Finally got my wife to take BBC, but was it a mistake?

Like most of the men here, I've been wanting to see my wife with a black stud for quite a while. She's always been freaky in bed and she gets ultra horny during sex (she gets wetter when we pretend like I'm a stranger, etc). She also likes to wear a blindfold when we do it to ad to her "stranger is fucking me" fantasy. A while ago, I started saying things to her during these fantasie, such as a black man had broken into the house and was fucking her, etc. I noticed that she always came faster when I said this.

So, fast forward to this past weekend, I decided to take a chance and make what seemed to be her fantasy (and certainly mine) become reality. I found a black bull in my area through another online site, and told him my plan: I would have him come to my house before my wife got home from work, and stay in an upstairs room that I use for my home gym. When my wife was ready to play, I would have her enjoy some takes first and then we go upstairs and do our usual fantasy.

So we went upstairs and as my wife was putting on the blindfold and getting ready, I popped into the extra room and told the bull to be ready.

I started doing it with my wife and we started our usual "black man is fucking you" type of scenario. And as you can guess, the bull came into the room, I got off my wife and he climbed on top and started fucking her. She knew immediately that it wasn't me. I'm not small by any means but the bull was longer and thicker. She took the blindfold off and saw him on top and me standing next to her. She had a look of shock and surprise.

I thought she would freak out so I told her it was alright, and I turned her head and put my cock in her mouth. She just moaned loudly and though she didn't admit it, I know she came harder and more times with the bull than she ever did with me.

When they finished, the bull got dressed and left. My wife showered and then we settled down. I asked her how it was and she said it was "ok", which I know from seeing/hearing her that she really loved it.

She hasn't brought it up again since then. I want to ask her to do it again but I'm afraid she might get upset, or be too embarrassed about it. What should I do? I don't want to push her to do it again and risk her getting mad, but it's really something that I want to see again.

If she was really upset with you, she would probably had reacted very badly by either crying **** and/or kicking your ass out of the house. At the very least, she might tell you to never touch her again. But she did not do any of these things. So, in my opinion, you have nothing to lose by telling her you want to do it again. The worse that can happen is that she tells you she never wants to hear about having another man take her ever again.

As corny as it sounds, honesty is the best policy. Also, nothing ventured/nothing gained. Good luck!
A man has not lived until he watches another man fuck his wife!

I agree w/ Amazonking!
You should tell her how much you LOVED it and if she wanted to you can set it up again! She would've stopped it right then and there if she did'nt like it. She's worried what's going on inside your head at this moment,,,, but i can tell you she's like, WOW!!!
marc-br549

Yep, it's a question you can be asking her rather than us porno freaks!

And when you do, try to ask the question in a positive way. Like firstly saying how enjoyable that whole scenario was for you and how much she really seemed to enjoy it all too and then ask and because we enjoyed this so much together now just how much better can you now feel may be after we do this again.

(many questions people ask, are so negative in their approach that they've already presupposed a negative outcome, these guys fail on so much on a daily basis that its just natural to expect the negative)

Mark916,
She made her choice when she played along w/ the fantasy. If my wife got her rocks off wanting me to have sex w/ another man and wanted me to go along w/ it i would freak! I would say hell no and that is the end of it!! If a woman goes along w/ hubbies fantasy then she at least get's turned on by the idea, which does'nt mean she'll do it, but at least you know she fantasizes about it. I agree that was a bold move on his part but i think she liked it more than you'll ever know! I would'nt be suprized if in the near future that she request that same case senerio again.
marc-br549

I tend to agree with Mark916.

What a horrible mistake to put a blindfold on her and then bring another man into the mix without her permission. Wow. Bad idea.

My wife and I swing and play cuckold games and EVERYTHING is by mutual consent. I would never trick her or play a game like that unless she agreed to it beforehand.

You are very lucky she didn't freak out.

If you're story is true, why don't you just say, "Gee honey, that was hot the last time. Want to do that again?"

Easy.

i was'nt agreeing w/ what he did, i even said it was a bold move on his part. BUT....... for some on this site it is based on fantasy like Mark said, but it is a reality for others like myself and many people that i dont need to mention. What i'm saying is that we dont know all the facts about what went on in the bedroom prior to the occurance that was mentioned. He could have asked her many times, (which he probably did), if she would like to be drilled by a BBC while blindfolded. In which case he did nothing wrong. As long as he asked her first if she wanted it then i think it's fine.

BTW, Mark, there are MANY cpls here that live this lifestyle, i see you have posted only a few times so when you say this is a fantasy site, well... not fully fantasy, there are REAL people here. This does happen in real life, i'm livin it!
marc-br549

He wrote it right here:




Sure sounds to me that he was just at the fantasy talk stage at this point and surprised her by having a real man show up.

I'm not flaming you, my friend, just stating that in my opinion that's a very bad move. Many many people like to keep this in the fantasy stage and he took a hell of a chance of having her freak out so badly that she would never consider doing it for real at all.

But if his story is true, he lucked out and it worked for him. More power to him. All he has to do now is just talk to her and arrange another meeting or a regular once a week swing night with the new guy.

I'm very conscious that people lurk here and get ideas on how to introduce their partners to cuckold or swinging games. I was a lurker myself and picked up on ideas and ways to do all this in real life. I strongly believe that putting blindfolds on your partner and having a stranger show up and put his dick in her without her agreeing to it beforehand is a very bad move.

Tell her it turned you on like crazy. Like some others who have posted - I think the way you did it, might not have been a great idea!

But if she hasn't scratched your eyes out and is still talking to you (and not the divorce lawyer), it's something you need to talk about - and could happen again!!
Intelligent articulate man seeks people who need to be "used, abused & humiliated!"

Jamesriske,
I see your point,,, i guess he should have added, Folks don't try this at home!!!LOL.

Willyj33,
Any updates?
marc-br549

Hey WillyJ. You can think people have given you enough replies and hints, so whats going on now?

James, the second quote on your last post was incorrect, that was the original poster that said that, not me. I guess it was a computer glitch.
marc-br549