Quoting: blackhorn
As unenviable as your situation was 1phrm, if you were to shrug off the blame game all round (and I'm not suggesting you've done that but guess it's too easy for anyone in that situation) - what have you learned from it ?
I take responsibility for all the things that happen to me in my life knowing that it gives me a sense of control and I kind of get that from your writing here, so if you could give us guys the benefit of your experience because when you think about it we all make mistakes and learning from them is the most important thing isn't it.
Well i do take some of th blame for this yes. My intentions were to let her be exposed to black men for the hope she would start to want them, then i could have this fantasy. My problem is I waited to long to let her know my intentions.i kbow so many women find black me desirable and I did realize by her being around black men, that she could fall for them, so i did realize that i was taking a chance here. Guess I learned that you play with fire you need to realize what could happen. I permisterally wont try this again, atleast not with somebody i was close to.
