Maybe, just maybe my wife will do it!

I've been working on my wife for 7 years to start with BBC, have a blk friend she knows and thinks is sexy wants to screw her and train her to be one of his white sluts. she keeps changing her mind, in the heat of passion she agrees and says she wants to be one of his sluts, and in the light of day she changes her mind and says no
phredd2003

we're eagerly awaiting the news about what she did with the rappers, it's very exciting. does she know that you have this thread going with lots of fans pulling for you and her? hope she feels like sharing with you soon- how do you feel right now? are you all fired up waiting for the news? once she tells you the good news of her blacking do you think she would share her experiences on this thread, or would that be too much to ask?
phredd2003

wow, keep us updated

Hey guys, i'll try to answer some of the questions. No, she does not know about this thread. I have also not brought up my desire for this, honestly im afraid to. I do not know what she was wearing that night, her gf took her shopping before they went. Im just going o play clueless and dumb, and let her feed herslf to this crowd some more, then maybe i will talk about it.

ok, yr the boss, just please let us know when she tells you something, thanx
phredd2003

she on the pill?
phredd2003

so you think nothing happened the other night when she was out late?
dl

I can't imagine why you have'nt mentioned your fantasy to her? It's probably too late for her to tell you now because if you never gave her the go-ahead, then she was cheating! Which means she'll never tell on herself. BUT,,,,, had you mentioned your inner thoughts before she left you would know what happened! It is time that you came clean w/ her!
I did, and my wife took me up on it!! My wife spent the night w/ her new bbc a couple of weeks ago, and next time it will be a 3-way! No gay cuckolds brownie though, one upstairs and one downstairs!!
marc-br549

I agree with Marc,if you never mentioned to her how hot and great it would be for you two to have her be a slut for black men, how would she know that you are ok with it? Marc has a point that if she did get blacked the other night, maybe she is feeling guilty, thinking that she cheated on you, and not feeling good that she did what you fantasize about.
I think you should speak with her, share your fantasy with her on how hot it would be, and ask her if she did that for you the other night, or if she came close to it. Ask her to be straight with you, no matter what she did- if she did it, great, wouldn't you want to know and enjoy her sharing the experience with you? If she didn't but came close, this would let you encourage her, and even help you set it up to happen, help her get dressed in slutty underwear for her next date. You are so close to a wonderful situation, just communicate with her honestly, she will love you for it, and be relieved of guilt and pressure.
phredd2003

From all I've read, these guys are right...women love men who communicate well, and they especially love it when their men share their fantasies with them. And most men don't. You know if her best friend does BBC, then she has to at least be very accepting of the idea...probably fantasizes about it herself! Let her in on the secret, I'll bet she'll be thrilled and more than happy to oblige. The way you are turning her loose for the evening, probably makes her wonder if you're not the one who's cheating. Lotsa luck.

hey 1phrm,
what's going on in yr world? how are you feeling, please share yr thoughts and feelings and concerns with us, we're to help and support you.
yr girl has a *******er smile, by the way
let us know, bro
phredd2003

I agree w/ brunettewatcher, she might think you have a hidden agenda like cheating and such. It is time grasshopper!!! You need to tell her your true feelings and i really feal that you wont be dissapointed w/ her responce!!
marc-br549

Well marc williams, i think you are right. I started to bring it up last night. I didnt even get a chance to finish. She thinks i am worried about her cheating. And, because that she is in the presence of black men, that is the reamister. She claimed that if she was hanging around a white crowd, this would not be an issue. She says I have a problem with blacks thats why i am mad. Shit, i wasnt even mad or anything, she just snapped on me. I never got a chance to explain myself, im gonna try 2nite.

you got to tell her str8 up what you want and what you tried doin with your friend and that this turns you on that when you fuck her you imagine she getting fucked by a black guy. i told my girlfriend and she told me how she fucked some black guy. talk to her whle fucking that worked for me

phrm, you are very close, just stay cool, there's definitely something going on in her mind. just be straight with her, calmly tell her that you are all in favor of her hanging with her girlfriend and the blk crowd, and that your fantasy and hope is that she get started sexually with black men, and that her girlfriend and her black BF will find a couple of good studs for yr wife to break her in. be sure to tell her you love her more than ever, and how you would like to watch and get sloppy seconds. It's not cheating if you encourage and approve of her with blk men, it spices up yr marriage, you love her and want her to have the best and most sex possible.
has she modeled her new outfit for you, the one she wore at the show?
we're pulling for ya, good luck!
phredd2003

I can't imagine what you said that put her on the defensive. Knowing how you feel about this, I doubt you are capable of even a hint of jealousy. First of all, let her know that you haven't even a smidge of racism in you. And it might also help to let her know (if true) how hot you think it is that her best friend is into black guys...or even that you find it erotic. You have to be careful about encouraging her to cheat or letting her know that's OK. Because again, she will get suspicious that you are getting some on the side or simply want rid of her, when she wants you to cherish her. You might just play it up like, "I bet you couldn't even handle one of those BBC's" "And if you tried one, you'd just lose all control and have multiple O's" etc. Make it a challenge for her to prove to herself and to you she can do it. And of course somewhere in there, let her know how much it turns you on. Women LOVE to know how to push your buttons. Once she knows...she'll be pushin' that BBC. Man would I love to see that! What a doll.

both of these guys are giving you good advise and i agree w/ them.
She snapped due to guilty thoughts or actions and went on the defensive because she either did it or she wanted to. Too bad you had'nt gotten around to explaining your fantasies before she went out, this would have played out differently! I would tell her straight up what you want, no dancing around the issue so that she has time to interrupt you. Also, tell her you love her and show her this site and your postings if she does'nt believe you.
Before that fatefull night that she went out, it would have been so easy for you to get her to try BBC, but now you have a little more work to do by verbally dancing around her guilt trip.
I would start by saying; I have had this fantasy of watching you get pumped by a BBC, i would love to tag-team you w/ a black man, (no gay cuckolds brownie) and i've wanted this for a long time! I've encouraged you to go out w/ your girlfriend because i knew she would help me get you to perform my fantasy. Also, tell her you don't care what happened that night but you hope that she had a good time. Leave that night out of the conversation as best as you can. If she keeps bringing it up, then tell her you hope she got gangbanged by a bunch of black guys and you hope that she loved it so she'll put on a show for you!! Also, pull out one of the hottest interracial pics that you have and give it to her and tell her you wish that was her in the pic. Let her have the pic, and she'll look at it when you're not around and the pic will do the work for you! Please keep us informed
marc-br549

Marc says: "I've encouraged you to go out w/ your girlfriend because i knew she would help me get you to perform my fantasy."

Now there's an idea I hadn't thought of, what Marc said about enlisting the help of her best friend who is already on the BBC. This is an excellent idea. If the best friend is someone you can talk to, see what she can do to help. If you can't tell your wife what you want, tell the best friend that you have been trying to think of a way to get your girl to experience what you "both know" (you & her friend) that she is missing out on. Then say, if she's already done it, that's perfectly fine too. But then let her know that you are very turned on by the idea and would like her to be getting BBC whether you get to witness it or not. It would certainly be great if you could be there to witness your wife at her most sexual, but you don't want to ruin it for her either. Especially if she is willing to bring you a nice sloppy-wet stretched-out pussy afterwards. I think the best friend could turn out to be a big help if you are careful how you approach her. Don't probe about a certain night or what the gf has noticed about your wife being attracted to black men, she too will get suspicious and think you are jealous or just probing for info. Break the ice by saying, "I have a fantasy about my wife being sexually attracted to black men" - and let her know you think your wife is really missing out on some great sex if she has not tried it, and that you love her very much, and that you want this for her complete sexual fulfillment, as well as your own. Any man who truly loves his wife, would not deny her complete fulfillment...I think this is why we are all here in the first place. We love our women and want to please them.

phrm,

wow, most excellent advice from Marc and brunettewatcher, well done guys, I can add no more. follow their advice and results are guaranteed, especially about enlisting the aid of her girlfriend.
what are the plans for the weekend? will she go out with her girlfriend again? you may want to encourage that- I would definitely talk to the girlfriend and see if her BF has some pals (of course he does) that want to turn a nice girl white wife out.
pls keep us informed, we're pullin' for ya
phredd2003

All i can say is that we wish the best for you! You know what i mean! My wife is out on the town w/ her black boyfriend right now. Too bad she could'nt bring him home, i have to leave EARLY in the morning on a buisness trip so i'll need my relax But next time it's on!!!! I hope she'll let me take pics this time! I hope you can only be so lucky, 1mph
marc-br549

Ok ok, this is the news. her gf just called for my wife, she isnt home, told her to call her cell. I asked then what she is doing tonight, she said out with her bf. I said i was hoping you would take my wife out, she asked why. I told her she has had a bad week and has been grouchy. I said when she goes out with you, that she really has fun. She asked me why she has been in a mood, . I said i dont know, but we have argued a few times. I told her that she thinks I have a problem with her going out with you because of all the black men that hang out with you. I told her that is not true. I then told her i know that many of the guys are atrracted to her. I said i find that sexy that they find her attractive, told her its hot to know that she is deisred still.

I then kissed her ass too. I told her that i know my wife finds black men attractive also. I told her many beautifull women do, then i said such as yourself. She liked that, she thanked me and gigiggled slightly. So i asked if she culd help me out. She asked if i wanted to have her come out with us. I said yes. i then asked if her bf has any friends that would come out with you gys, i said i dont want my wife to feel like a 3rd wheel. She said yes, i said there ya go, help me out. She was suprised, asked are you sure, i said yes!.

I then told her that i didnt tell my wife all the things i told her. I asked if she could talk to her for me. She said she will do what she can. I thanked her and thats it.

So, i let it out of the bag, have not talked to the wife yet. but this is a big hurdle, keep ya posted

1phrm,

At some point, you will have to talk to your wife. Once she hears from her girlfriend that you are "pushing her" toward the BBC, she will start to believe you either want her out of the house for the evening, or out of your life for good. Your wife's mood swing, is probably nothing more than frustration from not understanding what you are all about these days. I am getting the idea that you are not a very good communicator, at least not with her. You really MUST let her see through all of this that you cherish her, and you need to do plenty of things "with her" too - not just send her out with friends all the time. She looks like someone who appreciates a true romantic...be one. Send her flowers for special occasions. Offer to do little things for her, like prepare her a relaxing bath. Do some housework. Cook for her if you can. Impress her with taking care of some fix-it project she has been begging you to do. Buy her something really nice that she's had her eye on...her girlfriend could help there too since they probably shop together. All I'm saying, is just NOT to push her out of your life. Once she starts receiving the BBC, you want to be there to enjoy the "spills" of your victory. By all means let her know what it is that turns you on...I promise you she is dying to know! You treat her like a queen, and soon you'll be licking her clean. Good luck buddie!

Whatever ended up happening last night, you should ask your wife's friend if anything happened the other night that she came home late. She's your friend on the inside now. Maybe even flatter her by asking about some of her own experiences...

Love to hear an update

yes please....keep us updated. what happened the other nite when she came home late, and what bout last night? good luck...
dl

great job speaking with the girlfriend about making it happen, way to go
phredd2003

I've said it before and i'll say it again, whatever you decide to do DON'T ask about that night, never!!!!! If something did happen all you'll do is shove her back in a hole that you will not be able to pull her out of, besides letting it go and in time, alot of time, it will be forgotten. She might tell you one day if something did happen, but no worries if it did.
Besides, you have a bigger task at hand!! I would love to know what happened that night just like you do (not as bad of course), but i'm trying to steer you in the right direction! I have experience w/ this, successfull experience i might add!! BTW, good job w/ her gf!!!!
marc-br549

Wow. I had a ver similar situation when I was in College with my girlfriend at the time. She was somewhat adventeous and open to trying new things sexually. When the stars aligned perfectly she was wiling to have a threesome and we fooled around in semi-public areas with the excitement of
sma

Sorry, didn't quite finish. Bottom line is although the thought of her going out and screwing a black guy fueld a lot of hot moments it remianed a fantasy only. I rememeber, however, how exciting it was when she was out and potentially could make this a reality. Thanks for letting me relive these memories through you and you current situation. Good luck....
sma

so what's the latest? did she go out with her GF her BF and other guys on Sat. night?
phredd2003