are cucks bi or gay

Lable it any way you want

Considering how strongly most people feel about this (on both sides of the issue), Scarf probably gave the most intelligent answer, since most people are set in what they believe, and nothing said here will change that. But for the sake of those who haven't already made up their mind, and are just looking for info to help them decide, I'll put forth my opion. Just because the cat has kittens in the oven, doesn't make em bisquits. My husband doesn't have a gay bone in his body, to love a man, to kiss a man,,,the thought makes him gag, yet he'll suck his cock when we're in a motel room together. Yes he's performing a homosexual act, but that's merely hedonism,,,doing whatever feels good at the time. When a married actor kisses an actress he's not cheating unless he's FEELING it, it's all in your mindset, regardless of what half the world says. The star of Brokeback Mountain did stuff that would make my hub puke, yet they're not gay, so if performing or portraying homosexuality on screen for a paycheck doesn't make you gay, than doing the same thing in a motel room with your wife and her lover isn't necessarily gay either. Just tell everybody "I'm not gay,,,but I did stay in a Holiday Inn last night",,,LOL.

cucks shouldnt be labeled as bi sexual or gay. cucks are obedient! thats all they should be sexless unless made to perform like a trained seal LOL.
sissy lindsey

I was wondering if you saw Borat? I think that naked fight scene is the ultimate "makes you want to puke" scene.

I'm a straight up guy; who just likes the idea of my wife doing something,lets just say, different. That's it.

sissy4blkck

The subject heading you used for the thread you started is phrased as a question although, the message you wrote isn't really a question, it's more of a comment. We're you intending to actually ask that question or were you just commenting about how you think the site doesn't deal with cuckolds vs. sexual preference enough for your taste?

Anyone who has followed some of the threads the Nillaman and I have been involved with might see this as strange, but I actually agree with him. All the offense stuff, the crossdreesers, and the wide variety of fetishes that have *******ped "cuckolding" drives me crazy, but I just skip over those posts providing it's apparent in the subject line. You'd be surprised how many letters I get from guys asking me to cuck them,,,which of course is impossible, and I tell them so. The web is a double edged sword, on one hand it brings those of a mind together, on the other hand, it invites everybody else to join in (however,,,this includes the Nillaman, as he's a self proclaimed voyeur and has very little in common with this sites subject matter).

Gay or Bi?

Very hard question in here... there are definitely men that are cuck devotees that are queerer then a 3$ bill. Have no interest in the woman and suffer from an incapacity to be themselves.

And there are guys that want to or do do the exact same things that really are straight as an arrow.

So how do you know?

Self honesty is the only awnser no one else can tell you but yourself.

Just ask the question. Do I just like the presentation and the gender bending role play or do I like men... being able to mentally sit in the place and desires of a woman and enjoy it, isn't gay it can very well be good acting/role play. A desire to submit to a much more dominant male is fairly natural in nature. Love of a man is Homosexual, holding him... wanting to be alone with, usually a sure sign.

The real test if you can kiss a guy... your definitely Gay that might seem odd some men can give a blow job but not kiss a man... but think about it one is love, desire... the other is an act.

Bisexual? Not sure why this word exists... if any contact with the same sex makes a permister bi... 99% of us are Bi... last I checked that hand I use very often is a mans lol

These labels stink... terrible limited and demeaning if you ask me, I don't think trying something or playing a role makes a permister... something else.

To me, it's Who do you Love... Just can't see calling a guy Gay for tasting cum if he Loves and desires his wife for real and likewise can't see calling a Husband straight if all he wants is BBC...

Just look at your heart, no one can label you, you know the truth and can never hide from it anyway... so why even try

Exactly the same for me, though only if he was black.

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but iDID HOLDONE IN MY MOUTH TILL THE SWELLING WEMT
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if you suck dick, you are straight up gay. bisexual means nothing

some are bi and some are gay and some are submissive and some are dominant and some are switches and some are voyeurs. Its just like the words to that ol misterg sweat dreams are made of these who am I to disagree... some of them want to use you, some of them want to be used by you, some of them want to use you and some of them want to be used.

Damian70

good stuff dude. i actually agree with a lot you said. i could never kiss another bloke YUK however a have sucked my wifes lovers black cock. i love the fact he is well built toned and has a big dick.

i am not aroused by white males only blacks fucking my wife. i love the contrast, taboo, power dynamics and so on!

i love this lifestyle coz its the only thing that really arouses me sexually.

Damian70

good stuff dude. i actually agree with a lot you said. i could never kiss another bloke YUK however a have sucked my wifes lovers black cock. i love the fact he is well built toned and has a big dick.

i am not aroused by white males only blacks fucking my wife. i love the contrast, taboo, power dynamics and so on!

i love this lifestyle coz its the only thing that really arouses me sexually.

cucks run the whole spectrum just like everyone else.

for me, i would enjoy getting my wives lovers ready for her, including sucking then until they are at maximum erection before he enters her. i guess that would indicate my being bi. other cucks have other interests.

If they're happy, they're also gay! lol

My hubby is bi. He has sucked cock and been fucked up the ass but does not getturned on by men.. ie. looking at them in the street were as he loves to look at woman kiss them and anything else. I think that we are all just kinky and we should not have problems with playing with any sex as long as it is legal.

I'm definitely into the fetish and straight. Don't care for the cleanup stuff, sissy clothes, or cuck sucking. Just like the idea of a hot chick, ex-gf, gf, or wife getting the strange cock of their life.

the question is presupposing the outcome - giving a either or question without including straight. But just may be even these sorting categories don't even really apply in any context let alone the IR scene - because there are guys that will tell you men do nothing for them BUT put a black bulls cock in their face and given the order to suck - they'll do it. This for them seems to be about a transferring of power / domination and presentation. The myriad of combinations could be indeed perplexing.

Because what would it make a black guy that orders or allows another guy to suck his cock or eat his / hers / there cum of his cock - again are you to suggest is a black bull gay or bi

My sissy cuck is totally GAY! I only allow my sissy femme fag cuck to have any sexual attention with her self or with men. I never allow sissy to be with women, never allow a comment about women, or look at any woman except myself being with my lovers. Sissy services two of my lovers at their request and always cleans my lovers cum from my pussy and ass. Sissi is at the point of her training that when I touch her little sissy slitty she can not het an erection, only when sissy is being humiliated, or sucking ar fucking a hard man cock can she get an erection. So I would say sissy is a gay cuckold and she has blossomed into quite the cuckold and little cock slut. Label it how you will... I love my cuck being a gay cocksucker and love the closeness we have discovered I am married to a great friend and very sensitive, caring, understanding sissy. It has saved our marriage....
I have finally decided to take control (total) and have sissy in panties daily lock sissy in her CB 6000s for good. No more feeling sorry after a few weeks and no more giving into her pleas for mercy! Welcome the NEW MISTRESS!

ARE CUCKOLDS GAY?
For the most part, I do not think cuckolds are gay. As a part of the cuckold fantasy or lifestyle many men fantasize about or experience bi or homosexual acts but it is the offense of these acts that turns them on, not the acts themselves. In my opinion offense and/or emasculation are the key components to the cuckold fantasy and there is no more humiliating or emasculating act than for a man's wife not only to take a superior/better lover but to make the husband perform such acts in the presence of or on the lover while the lover gets to serve the role as "real man" to the wife. This is is the ultimate male offense. I do not think most would-be cuckolds would crave the bi or homosexual acts outside of the context of a cuckolding situation...there has to be some element of embarrassment or offense to it. But many cuckolds do find it exciting to be teased about being gay or a “fag” or a “sissy cocksucker” but that again is because of the offense of it.

Having said all that I do believe that many would-be or real life cuckolds are in fact bi-sexual or latent homosexuals who cannot bring themselves to admit their true desires and hence want to put themselves in situations where they may be "powerd" into those acts so as to absolve their conscience of responsibility for their conduct. In other words they just can't identify themselves as "gay" or "bi" and come out of the closet.

I also believe that if a couple exists with a fully bi or homosexual male and the couple simply shares male lovers without offense or presentation, this is not cuckoldry. I believe this arrangement would simply be bi-sexuality or bi-swinging. I think that in order for it to be cuckoldry there has to be some element of teasing, taunting, belittling, mortifying, humbling, dominating-submissive, condescending, subjugating, superior-subserviant, embarrassing offense and/or emasculation. Contrast this with the hotwife fantasy where the husband wants to watch his wife with other men but does not want to participate and does not particularly desire the cuckold offense. The hotwife fantasizer simply wants his wife to be his permisteral "porn star" who gives him private performances for his voyeuristic, masturbatory pleasure. This is about him not her. Being a "cuck" on the other hand involves the husband being a duped, dunce sucker or fool or buffoon. And that's what the cuck craves. The bi or homosexual male primarily craves/desires sexual contact with members of the same sex and feels sexual attraction for members of the same sex without regard to specific scenarios or situations.

I wouldn't worry about labels, just enjoy what you enjoy (as long as you do it safely) but if you must, you decide what you are and what you want to call yourself.

MsCix

Just fool yourself, MOM. lol

I enjoy watching my wife suck and fuck other men; but I would not suck another mans cock, or kiss him. As you can tell from the responses, many cucks are gay, or bi, while some of us are not. Its similar to, some people like rice, and some people do not like rice; different tastes.

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Excellent topic, but in french...

I am niether, Which is why I am a swinger. Not a cuckold.

My cucky is a bisexual in denial i think!! He claims not to be bisexual, yet when he is honest, he tells me who's cock he likes the most from the ones he's seen. Plus he loves me telling him all about the guys cocks who i fuck - you can hear how over-excited he gets when i describe them to him. And if he isn't bi, then why has he been on his own to watch male strippers?!! And he's done that more than once! Neither of us want him to take it in his ass, but that doesn't mean he isn't bi...!!

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I agree i only want to see blk cock in my wife but i guy im bi because im a cuckold and love sucking blk cock, been fucked too but also love woman.

I simply like watching women fucked by BBC. Don't know what the technical term is.

All I can say is I don't cross-dress, wouldn't suck a man's penis, eat another man's cum, kiss a man, take it in the ass or none of that junk.


I consider myself 100% straight.