The long term effects of her getting black cock and me being a cuck?

I posted late last year and a lot of cuckolds brownie has been going on so I've only been occasionally hitting this site. My wife Sandi has been doing other guys a few times a year since 2002. These were all one night stands and nothing more. We just couldn't seem to hook up with someone who was looking for an ongoing fuck buddy.

Then last August my wife's black boss, Deb, hooked Sandi up with her ex-husband and that became an ongoing thing until the holidays, where scheduling conflicts and life in general made it difficult to meet. They still see each other but this is rare. Deb also introduced Sandi to a few other guys, but unlike all the wild fantasies, only a few of these guys were interested, and including Deb�s ex, only three continue to see Sandi. One guy has turned out to be a lot like a �bull� type that cucks dream their wives meet. But even he is careful to make sure I remain (so he thinks) the unsuspecting husband.

Despite having her cake and eating it too, and seeing a dominant black male 3-6 times a month since January, she is still the wonderful adoring wife and seems to show no signs of losing respect for me or becoming dominant with me. This is fine with me, as I�m not into becoming a wimp husband with a bitch wife. It�s just not my thing, but I can see that other might like it. For fun we have jointly agreed to short terms of denying me penetration sex and only getting handjobs from her, but these seem to last only a few weeks at most before we both lose our willpower and go for it.

Changes that have occurred is her kinkiness, lowered inhibitions, higher self esteem (she loves when men look at her), and sexier appearance. She did get a couple tattoos, including a �tramp stamp� on her back, but sorry, no piercings.

I guess my question is that where will this go? Anyone have an experience to offer?

Bryan
Bryan

I think she will be black bred...

Hey, I remember reading about you a while back.

As far as where it will go, that has a lot to do with your attitudes and the type/permisterality of guys she sees. You mention that one guy is dominant, but the boss�s ex-husband doesn�t seem to be. That relationship seemed to diminish after the holidays. As for the dominant man she�s still seeing, how is he dominant? Does this mean he�s aggressive in the sack, or is this a true BD/SM situation?

Sorry for the long time between responses. Summer goes by fast and I've been on short business trips out of town.

Curtis ("Curt") is the domineering mentioned in past postings. Sandi sees him regularly, 3-5 times/month. Mostly she goes to his place, a nice home in an upscale community. Sometimes they meet at a motel, and rarely at Sandi's office after closing. Everyone involved believes Sandi is fucking around for fun without my knowledge so everything is planned to keep me from becoming suspicious.

Office fucks are the "I'm going to be a little late tonight, Honey" meets that usually take about a half hour. Curtis will call her earlier in the day and they'll schedule something based on what's happening in the office and when everyone will be gone, as well as what she supposedly has planned in her normal routine. After everyone leaves she pages him and he's there in about ten minutes. These quickies are either an over-the-desk, or an up-against-the-wall fuck. A couple times he's sat at her desk while she kneels before him to suck him off. He likes cumming in her mouth and watching it run down her chin.

Motel meets are planned in advance at least a couple days so Sandi can bring a sexy outfit with her, and ask Deb if it's okay to take a long lunch. Of course Deb knows what the long lunches are for and almost never says no. Curtis and Sandi have a system where he'll call that morning with the location. He's smart enough to not go to the same motel regularly, so there are about a half dozen places they've been. Back in April when the weather got warm she stopped and used a gas station restroom to change before getting to the motel. When Curtis opened the door to let her in, he was pleasantly surprised to find her standing there looking like a cheap hooker.

He really manhandled her, and she said it was the roughest sex she's ever had. Sandi said she was scared, nervous and turned on all at the same time. He left a few bruises on her and she was sore for a day or so, but she admitted that she liked it and got off several times while he hammered her pussy. This has become a regular occurrence. She calls it "getting a good whore fucking" and they did it twice in May, thrice in June, thrice this month. This is aside from other sexual activities. What initially surprised me was that even after getting the cuckolds brownie fucked out of her, she arrives home horny insisting we have sex. I know her pussy is sore, and the first couple times I offered to postpone sex, but she practically demanded I "fuck your slut wife." Although she mostly just lays back and talks dirty, I try hard to last long enough to get her off. If I don't I just finished her with a vibrator.

At his house, their activities include some bondage and sex games, especially since May. She's worn a maid outfit a couple times, as well as nice lingerie and he's handcuffed her to the bed and fucked her. The weirdest thing he's done is strap her down and put vibrators in her ass and pussy the poured honey on her pussy and let his rottweiler lick it up, which actually made her come twice. She said the orgasms were so intense that she screamed both times and was shaking so much she couldn't stand up at first.

As far as regulars, besides Curt, she really only sees Joe. She's fucked a friend of Joe's twice. His nickname is 'Pipe' and she was his first white girl. Last time she saw him was early June. Occasionally he texts her about hooking up again, but I permisterally think he has mixed feelings about seeing her. I don't if it's because she's seeing other men, she's married, or something else. Two more men have fucked her. One is a guy she met at one of Deb's clients.

Another was a guy she met working in the food court at the local mall. He was a young white guy, good looking, and she just decided to be spontaneous. It was not long after opening so the place was deserted. After some fast flirting he was convinced she was the real deal and told her he knew some place private. Of all places he walked her to a men's bathroom way down a service corridor and fucked her in one of the stalls. Then he asked for her panties as a trophy to prove to his buddies that he actually nailed her. She wrote her cell number and signed them 'Love, Sandi' but he's never called.

I didn't find out about this until after I got home from work that day. I was really turned on, but also concerned about her going someplace secluded with a total stranger. I asked her not to do something like that again without at least calling me and letting me know where she was. She agreed, but said she had a good feeling about him and his coworkers saw them leave the food court together. We've talked about going back to the food court some time and getting in line together in hopes he'll be at the register. If so, I'll go get a table giving her privacy to quickly try to set up a quickie with him. If everything goes right, she could bring him back to the restroom and I could already be there in a stall hiding to listen to them fuck. She would tell him that I've gone off to look in another store so she has some time before meeting back up with me. This idea really gets us both hot.

In the last ten months Sandi has definitely increased in sexuality. She wants sex a lot, and it's pretty rare for us to not fuck three or four times during the week, and 2-3 times on the weekends. She knows that dressing slutty makes her irresistible, so around the house she's always wearing hot clothes or lingerie. Still no signs of her turning into a bitch. I wondered a while back if she'd start copping some attitude with me since the sex with other guys is more extreme than with me. If anything she's become more generous and thoughtful than ever. And it's basically a rule, she insists, that we have sex after she gets home from fucking another guy. I think it's a way of reconnecting for her.

One thing that was peculiar that I've gotten used to is she's always saying "Your wife" when referring to herself. She says stuff like "Your wife needs a good fucking," or "Your wife needs to go grocery shopping." Once in a while she'll say "Sandi" instead of "your wife." I don't know if Curt as taught her this or she's just fallen into this habit herself.

I believe that after six months if Sandi seeing Curt fairly regularly that this 'sex game' has blurred into a real life situation. She's no longer acting LIKE a slut, she IS a slut. And both of us seem happy with that.
Bryan

Bryan, you should both be happy w/ that!! I like to watch/ participate!
I would let you watch if i was lucky enough to "hook up" w/ her! PM me if interested.
marc-br549

Developments perhaps depend more on how your wife's Bulls want things to go from where they are now than on her or your wishes - assuming she is now enough of a slut not be able to go without meets with them. Not sure though what they will want - perhaps content to let things carry on as they are, believing you live in ignornance.

Oh my....sometimes imagination runs rampant....such as it is....reign it in....Missy

BryanBOSW said:

<i>One thing that was peculiar that I've gotten used to is she's always saying "Your wife" when referring to herself. She says stuff like "Your wife needs a good fucking," or "Your wife needs to go grocery shopping." Once in a while she'll say "Sandi" instead of "your wife." I don't know if Curt as taught her this or she's just fallen into this habit herself.</i>

As someone who has sometimes played distinctly Dom roles (or exercised that side of myself with willing submissives), those phrases especially if she uses them often or all the time are CLEAR indications that she's been receiving submissive training from someone who knows at least the rudiments of sub training / mind fucking, as opposed to merely enjoying rough sex. Yeah, Curtis is training her alright.

I can't predict how far she will go in this with him, but it could be pretty damn far. So far the way she's treating you when she's with you is a good sign.

You seem very attracted to all this, including the cucky side and not just the hotwife husband enoying some vicarious thrills and better sex himself with his wife side. You will reach a real juncture if she starts denying you sex, probably in her case if she does under Curtis's direction. (since she's so far shown little or now domme tendencies towards you, only subby ones towards her black lovers, and slutty ones re: her foodcourt and other casual pickups on her own).

I'd think long and hard about letting things go there. Some big time cucks love it. You might and it sounds like you would find it sexually thrilling as well. But it can be a bridge that's crossed PERMANENTLY if it's crossed at all, or more than in a very mild way where it's her clear understanding and desire that you can and might call a halt to the denial whenever you want.

Particularly if she doesn't derive so much pleasure in exercising the control over you of denial herself, but instead is thrilled to be so controlled by Curtis that she "has to" do it to you if he commands it, you run a heightened risk of losing her to him (perhaps him only temporarily, but gone from you forever). Cuckoldresses on the otherhand who thrill in exercising their own dominant side control over their husband according to their own direction and libidinous imagination, only sometimes supplemented by her Dom's direction, are much more likely to find something in the husband, a man to control and dominate (who's also reliable, adores her, and supports her well) that isn't so easy to find elsewhere, certainly not entirely in the bulls she likes to see outside the marriage.

Since your wife seems to only thrill in the subby side at least so far, be very careful. A lot of this stuff is partially being conditioned in both of you, as opposed to being entirely "just the way you are". Things aren't all inevitable or always completely hard wired. Intense sexual experiences can change not only her but also you, and not always for the better -- just as crack, though thrilling at the moment, certainly has it's (massive) downsides.

Things like money and security and reliability also matter. To the extent you provide those things in goodly amounts (with only money being not necessarily clear from your posts), don't let her forget that -- without rubbing that in. Better for EACH of you to keep reaffirming your deep love for each other all the time.

There are some advantages in her seeing black lovers in that most white (and black) women know the terrible track record a great many black men have in remaining in any way shape or form faithful to their wife or LT girlfriends, or stick around as supportive parents to offspring. (Though obviously some do.) The statistic that 69% of black youngren are born out of wedlock doesn't come from nowhere.

BTW, does Curtis have other gf's, or a wife?

Bryan:
Saw your update. Frankly, I think that you’re spot on about her being a full-fledged slut. I don’t think, in her mind, this is just a lark anymore. Her fucking other men has become very normal for both of you and I think ukwankerboi is correct that what happens next is more about what the bulls want.

Seems like she’s having trouble sating this new hunger. Picking up the guy in the food court was rather spontaneous. I permisterally believe that anyone can be conditioned to a new type of behavior. A predisposition (like liberal sexual values to begin with) can help. Your wife has tasted the ‘forbidden fruit’ of promiscuity and after a few months is now thoroughly indoctrinated. It’s all about pleasure.

Many have heard about the lab rats that would ignore food in favor of tapping the lever that sent an electrical impulse to the pleasure center of their brain. I believe females are more prone to being ‘trained’ with sex (or specifically, orgasms). After all, they are capable of multiple orgasms and can be kept in a state of high arousal for a long time, as opposed to most men who cum and then go into a non-aroused state. Expose her to a stimulus, or make her behave in a certain way, and then reward her with orgasms. The more, the better. She’ll quickly learn, accept and eventually crave that behavior.

I think this is exactly what has happened to your wife. Including you, she’s fucking at least two different guys a week and enjoying every minute of it. You’re providing her with a stable, nurturing emotional relationship while consenting to and encouraging her to fuck anyone she wants. She fucks other guys and is rewarded with arousal, excitement and intense pleasure (orgasm). She tells you about what she’s done and gets those same rewards.

Whether you know it or not, YOU are being conditioned, too. While listening to her tell about sex with other men you’re getting those same rewards. Pretty soon, you won’t be able to think about her sexually, without thinking about her fucking another man. While you’re balls deep in her pussy, you’ll be thinking how hot it is that she’s a cheating slut (I mean that only positively).

Interesting that your wife’s boss encourages this behavior and even introduces Sandi to potential studs (all black?). I can’t help but think there’s something in it for her, as well. Maybe I’m just jaded.

Some questions from the audience…
Are you getting as much sex now as you were a year ago?
How has your wife changed? You wrote that she’s dressing sluttier? How about her attitude towards you…still no change?

This post was very insightful! I have not yet even started in trying to persuade my wife to fuck other men, even though it is a fantasy and the fantasy has matured into becoming very specifically interracial. As WIFNTRNG stated about being balls deep and only being able to think about her fucking someone else, I am already there without even having had her do anything.

My wife was previously married to a Cuck and was very promiscuous/a slut. I did not know this until we were together for some time and was initially very turned off about it all. As time passed however, one thing clicked into another and I started to fantasize about her fucking other men.

I do not want to loose the relationship and respect we have for each other. I would like to try it one time though.... but,....is once ever enough and how easy is it to stop once it gets started?, what will change from doing it only once? She does not show any tenancies of wanting to do the hotwife thing again, but that is either probably because of my initial reaction and she does not want me to worry about it, or she really wanted to put it all behind her.

I guess what I am really searching for is can it happen once without getting out of control??
fido

There is one very serious long term affect of her getting Black Cock

Sometimes, some of the Black Rubs off and she has stains on her hands chest and face... it takes days even with good soap to get off...

My wife had to miss 3 days work once... it looked like she had been working the bbq too long... or was a fire fighter or something...




Lol sorry... I sometimes get compulsed into bad jokes