still shocked

A while ago my wife told me one of her bulls had told her to ask me if i wanted to join in. Of course i would like to, but my wife feels more comfortable with me not around, so i havn`t yet. Well yesterday i found out why he would like me to join in. He came earlier than planed and my wife had just got in the bath. He asked me to suck his cock while we waited for her! I refused saying i wasn�t into that sort of thing. He said it didn�t matter i`d get into once i got started, and that i may as well do it, because he was going to tell my wife i did even if i didn`t! He had a hard on and took out his nine inch black cock telling me again to do it. I refused again and went to or party room in the basement, not going up again until i heard he and my wife go into the bedroom. My wife didn`t say anything yet so i don`t know if he told her i sucked him or not. I don`t know if i should mention it or not. Maybe he didn`t say anything and i should just wait until she says something. Then again i`m not sure i want her seeing this guy anymore, so maybe i should tell her what he said?

may u should just suck his dick

u cucky are obligated to suck your wifes masters cock! u should feel privlaged he even would allow u such a delight! u should be thrashed for even refusing, put on your wifes panties and do as your told cucky if that magnificent black stud tells u to lick the sweat off his balls u should do so without hesitation if u are told to tongue his ass as he fucks your wife u should be greatful for the opportunity! remember cucky he is providing a service to your slut wife that u obviously cannot and it is your duty to oblige his every whim no matter if u feel it demeening or humiliating or not. know your place canuckcuck.
ps- and by no means should your name be capitalized...
sissy lindsey

No he isn't obligated to suck anybody's cock..Just cause you homo's get off on the idea,doesn't mean he does. He's a cuckold not a homosexual and his wife's bull is an asshole for even mentioning it to him.

i can appreciate your point door i was just encouraging as this is how i was trained, sorry if u were offended
sissy lindsey

That's a good theme to start a discussion: Are voyeurs (in which category cuckolds may be included) gay or not? If not, do they have a tendency to become gay? Are voyeurism, cuckoldry and homossexuality related? ...

You have to be kidding me!! I second what Doormat4Her said.

I agree with doormat you dont have to be bi or gay to be a cuckold. I was sucking cock long time befor I became a cuckold but I dont kiss men nor do I do anal with them ,in fact untill I became a cuckold I couldnt get an erection with a man. Still something drew me to them or there cocks, now I am a cuck my cock grows if a man looks at her. I dont try to understand it just enjoy.
Graz

This is a subject that will have everybody arguing,,,some may even get insulting, it's close already. Here's our take on it,,,homosexuality is the exact opposite of heterosexuality,,,everything in a hetero relationship should exist in a homo relationship, except the people are of the same sex. If you can kiss a man, and have intimate feelings for him, than you're gay,,,if not, then you're simply a hedonist,,,most of the bi activity in a cuck relationship is in the heat of the moment, the men don't sustain on going relationships without the wife. Like they say, if the cat has kittens in the oven, that don't make em biscuits. My hub fluffs my lovers, some have even cum while he's doing it, we share cocks while he's fucking me and at glory holes, yet he would gag if a guy kissed him, he whinces when he sees it in a movie. I'm sure you'll find people that disagree (mostly those that protest too much, if you catch my drift), but both I and my hub are totally confident in his heterosexuality. I've come across guys that say if you eat pussy (a place where cocks have been), you're probably gay,,,I guess they think it's a good excuse not to do it, I think it's a great excuse not to fuck em, LOL.

But, in a way, lending one's wife to others and contenting with watching, jerking off and perhaps even taking further action in favouring this kind of relationship - like 'sharing cocks' - is this very manly?

Mary, we can always count on you for a clear and common sense opinion of things. I always enjoy reading your posts.
As for me, I learned to love sucking my wife's lover's cock but I would never think of kissing him or anything more. I have sucked other men without her being present but always when they are viewing her videos. I don't consider myself gay, have no attraction to men other than desiring a nice big cock and a thick load of scum in my mouth once in a while when the mood strikes.

If this black stud is doing your wife regularly (assume because she needs His attention) then you do have an obligation to keep Him content with that service He is giving - and so if He wants you to show your presentation and acceptance and respect in the very demonstrative way of sucking His cock, then you should. RenoSissyCuck and maggotboy are 100% right.

But Doormat4Her has a good point that you should not be powerd - yet he is wrong about it being gay. It is about presentation and respect and the Bull exercising His power and authority. You should acknowledge His right to ask you and you should volunteer - to keep your wife and her Bull happy - and you will laybe find yourself made more content. It is, after all, a way of you participating rather than being excluded as you are now. Have you thought that it will make you a more fulfilled and happy cuck?

(Also keep in mind your wife may have suggested to her Bull that He asks you to join in and suck - in any case the Bull perhaps would not get you to suck Him unless He thought it would bring an extra dimension of enjoyment for your wife.)

In most cases a cuckold relationship begins and continues because of a lack of confidence in the husband, whether real or imagined shortcomings exist, it's the psychologically confident male that becomes the dom, men with big dicks, big muscles or big bank accounts can be lacking somewhere else. They may be giants in all other respects, but they'll yeald to the man that has them beat in one. On the flip side of the coin are the women, 99% of them would find no other use for their lovers other than to cuck their hubs,,,for all other needs in their relationship they'd choose their hubs. A lot of the men from ancient Rome and Greece maintained both hetero and homosexual relationships,,,yet in all other aspects of their life they'd put most modern men to shame in their display of masculinity. Nobody calls them fags,,,there are two sides to every coin, in the lesbian world you have dykes and lipstick lesbians,,,butch and feminine (and every combination in between), in the male homosexual world you have the same thing, on one hand you have the queens, flamboyant and openly feminine, and then you have the linebackers that you're really not sure about (and everything in between). Society writes the rules we live by, but it doesn't write what we feel. One of the reamisters they'll always be a struggle against haves, prostitution, pedophelia and all the other vices is because you can't legislate against vice, it's like making laws on how much air you can breath, it's human nature. I've said before,,,I'm not into pedophelia, but in the old days, when a girl got her period (around 12), she was ready, just like any other natural, society says that's not proper,,,but it's as "NORMAL" as anything on this planet. Take a dozen 12 year old boys, and a dozen 8 year old girls and put them on an Island, go back in 5 years and tell me how many people are on that island,,,then tell me if any of them feel guilty or ashamed. But again,,,leave them little girls alone, or you'll definately find yourself questioning your masculinity,,,especially if you're comparing it to "Bubbas",,,your cellmate, LOL. Cause we don't live in a natural world, we live in a world of laws, and even though you can't legislate morality, society has shown us they have no intention of giving up trying.

Apparently the guy did what he said he was going too. My wife told me yesterday, that the same guy is comming over today. Then with a grin asked me if she should be in the bath, so i had a chance to suck him off again. I told her i didn`t, and what he said, but she dosn`t believe me. She even said she figured it would happen sooner or later anyway! I told her it wasn`t true and asked her not to have the guy over again. She told me not to be silly, just because i sucked a cock once didn`t make me gay, and it was no reamister for him not to come anymore. I`m not sure what to tell her to get her to believe me. She said when she came out of the bath his cock was still out, and wet from me sucking it, he`d obviously just cum, so i must have done it!

He will be here in about a hour, and i tried to tell my wife again that i didn`t suck him. I don`t think she believes me, but said even if i didn�t, or didn`t like it, it wouldn`t hurt me to give him a blowjob now and again if he wants me to! I can hardly believe she said that!

You just have to let our inhibitions go and suck him now!! Anyways, sounds like it was your wife's idea in the first place - and you want to please her don't you?

You should just let yourself go in a new experience and see what happens. It could work out really great for you all.

The couple that plays together, stays together.

Most Bulls enjoy getting blowjobs alot more than most women enjoy giving them. You don't have to enjoy it but you do have to do it. It's only fair.

Let's see what others think. Here's a vote.

canuckcuck's Wife told him he should give her Black lover blowjobs. Should he?

https://www.cuckoldplace.com/index.php?action=poll&pollaction=vote&poll ID=219

name: you seem to have a very perverse view of sexuality. If you have to ask such problematical questions then it tells me a great deal about your immature character. Why should 2 + 2 = 7, 9, 6.5, 211, or whatever. People are people and derogatory labelling is negative. And of course canuckuck shoul do what he wishes and not be obligate in any way.

I agree Thug I didn`t do it although he asked again. My wife didn`t say anything, just waited to see what i would do. When I refused she gave me a dirty look but didn`t say anything. I guess I will hear what she has to say when she gets in from work. I`m starting to wonder if this could be my wifes way of trying to take more control even though she has most of it anyway.

Frankly, Canuckcuck, it seems to me that what is REALLY going on here is that your wife, behind the scenes, is trying to turn you into a cocksucker.

Well Montreal Dom it seems you are right! We discussed it when she got home today, and she thinks i should do it. The thought of me sucking a cock when she knows i don`t realy want to kind of makes her hot. I don`t understand why it turns her on, and she don`t understand my refusal to do it. After all i eat their cum out of her, so it shouldn`t bother me to suck a cock. I disagree its not the same at all.

Well, be prepared. Because she's going to be having you take that cock up your ass soon. I mean come on, I figured this out after your first post. You must see her end game by now.

Look what are you hesitating about? Just do it! Your wife want is, her Bull wants it, you ought to want to keep them both happy, it is a way for you to participate when you have been excluded before, and it is a new and harmless no cost experience that may leave you more fulfilled and contented in the lifestyle.

If you do it, and then you find it is not for you, you can explain to your wife, telling her you did it to please her but it is something you don't want to try often (or again). Recognise that you have lived with the idea too long now to be able to dismiss it from your mind - if you don't find out you will spend years wondering.

Your hesitation will seem uncooperative and negative. When you do it, you must apologise to your wife AND to her Bull for taking so long about it.

I think you should give cocksucking a try - you never know, you might like it. But whether you do and with who is your decision and just because you're into cuckolding doesn't mean you have to suck cock. I think you should be alarmed by two things here: First, the fact that your wife's lover lied to her about you, and second, that she chose to believe him over you when you contradicted him.

This is a sign of a real problem and my advice is to have a blunt talk with your wife about it. Tell her that what really bothers you is that she doubted your word and that has nothing to do with whether you should try sucking cock or not. Then tell her that you will certainly never consider giving it a try with this guy after the way he behaved and are unmovable on the topic as long as she chooses to keep seeing such a troublemaker. He lied to her about you and tried to stir up trouble between you in the marriage. Tell her how you feel about her seeing him again and that you are hurt and angry that she chose to believe him over you.

Good luck.
Pantalone, Wittol, oblate, abnegator, fellator, pathic, irrumatiophile,fop, epicene, cotquean, skivvy, thrall, and pilgarlic.

ok Mrs B'doll - but canuckcuck might keep in mind that neither his wife nor her stud necessarily beleived themselves that they wanted him to think they believed. (!) So it might be a lesser "real problem" than it could appear. They may just have been giving him encouragement by their subterfuge.

Had a long talk with my wife last night, and she said she knew all along i hadn`t sucked him. He told her that first night, he told me that to try and get me to do it. She had known before hand he was going to ask me to suck him.
He had told her about another couple he used to see where the husband also sucked him sometimes. The thougt turned her on and she told him to ask me to do it, to see if i would. She figured since i eat cum from her pussy, sucking a cock shouldn�t bother me. Permisteraly i don`t see how she comes to that conclusion, but she says that sucking a cock is logicly the next step from eating cum from a pussy. She still would like to see me do it and admited that my offense at having to service a black was part of what turned her on. So far except for some mild teasing about her black bulls being better in bed, that sort of thing has never come into it before. My wife used to be realy shy, but since shes started having other men, has gotten a lot more confident. Maybe this is all about her wanting to assert herself?

Sooner or later you'll be bending over too.

I permisterally have struggled with this topic. If any of you read my post on page 13, you know ten yrs ago I talked my wife into fucking her college bf. She has since refused to take another lover. So over the past ten yrs I have sucked off three black guys. After each one, I tormented myself and swore I would never do it again. And I would live up to that for yrs at a time except the last two where only a year apart, and again just a year from the last time, the thought consumes me. So I began to think, maybe I am gay or bi... but I lust at pictures of women (especially women with black guys) I looked at a couple of gay sites and nothing... I like Mary's view except; am I doomed to always feel unfulfilled? If I told my wife I wanted to suck a black man cock, I am sure I would be looking for a new place to live.

I should mention it was page 13 under stories, not interacial.

Well Canuckcuck, have you seen the results of the poll?

55 people said you should suck your wife's lover!

only 5 people said you shouldn't.