White mature lady, so interested, but not sure yet...

I have been reading this site using my best friend's handle since I could not believe what she was telling me about a web site for people interesting in white women having sex with black men. I have finally registered on my own, and I still can't believe I am doing this. However, I am interested, so interested in what I have read, seen, and thought about since finding this site. My waking thoughts have been so filled with the images I have seen here, and my dreams have been so erotic I can't believe its me. I was reared in such a "prim and proper" religious home; married early to a wonderful man, reared my own family and seen them leave on their own. My husband works quite a bit, and am sure he means well. I can't believe I am going to admit this after seeing the images and reading the comments on this site: he is very small and is very typical to the comments that many of the other ladies here about their husbands. I believe that I have become so interested in the idea of having sex with a man that is well-endowed that when I have sex with my husband, I am now having images of doing with someone much more endowed than him. I don't know if he would even consider talking to me about my recent thoughts. What should I do? Keep them to myself? Raise the ideas with him? What if he goes crazy? I would welcome any help from this group that has much more experience than I do. Please understand that I am only trying to understand these new feelings growing with in me. Thank you for anyone that may offer some thoughtful and kind advice. I am afraid I am going down a road that I am finding hard to stop and I want to discuss this with those of you that have experience. Sorry to ramble on. I will close now.

i'm really sorry that u don't write ur e-mail addy................

maybe when you are sure you will return with the news Whitefem 64

I understand.... It is indeed a long and winding road. My theory is that you should try new things like that on him when you are fucking, when he is hot inside you... Tell him that you get turned on by being used, then that you would like to be indiscriminatel used, even by others - and see how he reacts. If he goes over the top, then you know he likes it; if not, then drop it and come back to it at another time. Meanwhile, enjoy this site... Also possible to enjoy sex over IM or MSN (my handle is same as here). See you around!! ;)

you are so right.discuss it with him .i wish i would have discussed every thing with my beloved key holder[wife]10 years ago.our marriage was on the rocks until we found this fantastic life style,she keeps me locked in my chastity belt at all times and she has a wonderful and understanding husband and a boyfriend for the "other" needs.now she looks after herself is more pretty than ever and when her boyfriend comes she is excited like a 18 year old teenager.she is in the 50 and has 3 youngren with me but she really deserves this lifestyle.so,go ahead and live your life,,reg.
Stay locked in a NEOSTEEL MASTERPIECE "ARCH" at all times!

You could approach him with the idea that you're worried that sex is becoming predictable and boring for him, and you want him to tell you some of his fantasies. Bear in mind that he may feel as inhibited as you about revealing these private thoughts. Once that dialogue starts, nurture it gently and let him know what he says is OK. If he gives you an opening, suggest that he buy porn or rent x-rated videos. It should be easy then to find material dealing with your particular turn-on. If you go slowly, giving respect to all that you two have meant to each other through the years, and subtly guide him in the direction you want to go, you may find that it's also the direction he's wanted to go in all along. Very good luck to you!

another tip- tell him that you'd like to see HIM with another woman, and go from there. He will be much more willing to think of you with another man if he is given the same shot at other sex. And that's only fair, usually. If, like many men, he's ok playing with other ladies but doesn't want you to play...then you have a pretty good excuse for playing without him, if you want!

I'd say get a realistic black dildo. They're so popular these days you can even get them online from Amazon.com It'll be less threatoning to him than a real guy and most guys have wanted to see a girl masterbate before.

Then, if you're feeling brave you can wait till he's horny and put on a show or you can accidently leave it where he can find it.

having been with older couples many times in the past, i would love to chat with u about it, as it is extremely hot and a massive turn on.

if u would like to discuss it further pls dont hesitate in contacting me by email [email protected], i look foward to chatting with u about it.

Thank you for your kind words and helpful advice. I guess I should let you know that 64 is not my age, but my date of birth. My friend told me that most people would assume it was my age. I am only 42 and try to stay in shape. My husband says that my legs and breasts (38D) are his favorite parts of me. Since I have seen pictures of all different types of women on this site, I am assuming that black men are not as limited in their desires when it comes to white women. Is that true? I like the idea of the black dildo, Kittens..., that's a very good way to begin the discussion. My husband does not have his own secrets, but I only have hints about them. As for telling him that I would like to see him relax with another woman, I don't think it would work. He is very timid about his "maleness". He keeps saying that he is very small and this site has really brought that out to me. If what I see here is true, then he is very small. Whew! Would a picture of "part of me" help? I have some pictures that probably aren't very sexy, but could let you know what I have to work with in regards to being desired by a black man. I will try and post more later after my husband leaves for work tomorrow. Bye for now, and thanks again.

Thank you, BigBlkBull, I have taken you up on your offer to contact you via email. I have left you a message. Please answer at your convenience. Thank you so much for your willingness to help me.

BigBlkBull
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whitefem64
hey email me at [email protected] ill send you a few pics of me and wanna get to know you...

The answer is simple.If he's not into unhibited sex(which you would know from intimate conversation)don't go there.........Not everyone is a feather of a specific flock..........
"Nice asses only,please"